Dating Advice - Kneepads?

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Hello everyone. Welcome back to your own natural to sun. I am

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J. with the American.

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What in the world camera just is acting up. There you go.

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Oh, there we go. There we go. We're here. We're here. We're here.

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We're here. All right. There they are.

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And

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into it. Nikki Sapphire and Ginny Banks. Hello. Hello.

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Hi.

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Okay. Yeah, we got some interesting topics for you guys today. As always, this is an

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18 and up. So if you're not 18, I don't know what you're doing.

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What are you doing?

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Get out of here. Get go back to tech talk because it's on there.

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Wait, really?

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Yeah, so I can wait. Oh, then I can go back to doom scrolling.

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Yeah.

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So take talk.

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And yesterday, like yesterday evening, and then when I woke up today, it was unbanned.

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So very, very interesting.

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I didn't even know it was unbanned. I'd like, wait, what? No way.

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Yeah, it's back. I like, I'm on tech talk right now, like hi tech talk.

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Whoa.

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Let me let me official everybody's freaking out because why no one's no one's freaking

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out anymore.

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Oh, look at that. Welcome back.

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Welcome back.

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Well, wow, you're.

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Oh, you have two phones.

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What?

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I don't have my other one with me.

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One's a one's a burner phone, you know, for other stuff.

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Yes, clearly, like, ordering way too many socks.

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Why? What?

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Wait, what?

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If you order too many socks.

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I have too many underwear.

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Anyways, she complains about it a lot. Sorry.

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Socks. She complains about socks.

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No underwear.

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So okay. But yeah, moving along other topics.

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So very famous name in the adult industry. I think this is like the first porn star

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whose name that I knew Sasha Gray. Are you guys familiar with her?

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Oh, yeah, definitely.

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Yeah.

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She's Twitch streams.

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I think.

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Yeah, I don't.

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What's streaming sometimes?

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I don't think she does like adult content anymore. I think she like retired.

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Yeah, that's why I think you're right on that.

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But anyway, she's doing a drive right now where if you go over to her website, she has

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a shirt that she's selling where all profits are going to the victims of the LA fires.

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I actually just bought a shirt this morning. So if you want to help out, definitely go

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out there and help the people that are affected by the LA fires, but also support adult content

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workers that are trying to make a difference.

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Yes, especially those that have exited out of the industry and are trying to explore

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different revenues of earning. So definitely keep supporting them because they are wonderful.

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Yeah.

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Yeah, that's pretty cool though. Yeah, go get yourself a shirt.

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Also, it is key to note that it is National Popcorn Day and AMC is doing all you can eat

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popcorn for all sizes. So you want all you can eat popcorn and head over to AMC.

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Looks like we're seeing a movie tonight.

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Are we?

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I don't know. Maybe.

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At AMC?

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No, just have to be at AMC or is it just like?

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No, you can celebrate Popcorn Day anywhere.

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Oh, okay.

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There's no rules. I don't think.

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That is true. You can celebrate Popcorn Day anywhere.

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I don't know all of the laws.

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But are the other theaters going to be like, yeah, here's free popcorn?

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I honestly, I do not know.

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I believe that will depend like location to location.

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Mm hmm.

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Yeah, like franchise to franchise. But yeah, there are some places that have promotions

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where they'll give out like a free bag of popcorn or something like that.

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Nice.

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But good to know if you like popcorn and movies.

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Oh, hi, Joe.

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Welcome, Joe.

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Oh, Joe's here.

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Yeah, popcorn day is an American day as well.

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It's always chaos. It's a day of chaos.

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And we have to.

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My birthday.

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We got to kill chaos.

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I'm here to kill chaos.

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Nice.

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But that's pretty.

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Yeah, moving on or moving on.

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So we're going to we're going to jump right into it.

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We're just we're going to hit some heavy topics.

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All right.

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Heavy heavy heavy.

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Hitters.

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I think heavy topics.

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So I often hear that men who are quote like chasing trans females, you know, they're being

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demonized.

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Like it's bad to go chasing after trans females.

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So the question kind of came that what says who?

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I know it says a lot.

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So there's a lot of people.

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So the internet.

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But the question is how how does one go about dating a trans female if they are into trans

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females?

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And I don't really know who to ask.

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Is that for I don't really know who.

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Who can I ask about that?

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I mean, we can both answer equally, but I would like to say one thing.

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We should definitely because men who like trans woman and anyone who likes trans woman,

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specifically trans woman who are just trying to date them and aren't doing the chaser things

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are not chasers.

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There's there's a certain type of person that is a chaser and it's usually someone that

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is actually like almost like a stalker kind of, you know, it's like.

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Yeah, I think that might be my my issue.

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My confusion here is like, I don't really consider men that are per se into trans women.

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I don't consider them.

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Those people chasers.

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It's not it's not the fact that they're chasing trans women is what makes them chasers.

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The like, you know, the fact that they're acting like fuck boys.

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You know, yeah.

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That's that's like, I think where a lot of people like are using the term in my understanding,

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you know, I don't I'm not like, oh, oh, you're into me.

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Oh, that turns me off.

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No, yeah, definitely not.

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But for instance, for those guys that are, you know, that are being afraid to date trans

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women because they're afraid of being labeled as a chaser, well, if you, you know, approach

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it as like you're trying to date anyone, like any person, you know, like any kind of relationship

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starts off with friendships.

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So start being friends with the person, you know, very, very easy steps, very simple steps

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is my best advice is, you know, if you're not good at social interactions in person,

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which I would recommend going to a gay club.

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Gay clubs are fantastic for meeting people part of the community, maybe even like pride

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events or specifically gay events or any kind of queer events, you could, you know, meet

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someone and if you're not comfortable with that dating apps, of course, try dating apps.

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But my point is making friends is the first step to make to any relationship.

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So you got to make friends first.

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Yeah.

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But one thing, one thing for sure.

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Treat us with respect.

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It doesn't matter for trans women, trans men, non binary, cis, whatever, what have you,

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everyone deserves a little respect, even if you don't know them.

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Yeah, it's, you know, when you, when you cross that line of trying to getting to know that

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person versus they're just trying to have sex and then throw you away and then.

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Yeah.

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Fuck the next person.

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Yeah, I'm not, I'm not trying to like, they're, I'm not trying to be like, you know, this

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is how you hook up with, yeah, that's like, you know, this is not hook up advice.

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This is purely dating advice for anyone.

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Really.

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I mean, that's my experience is like friendship always comes first.

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You always have to come out of your shell a little bit and, you know, find that person

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that kind of clicks.

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Are we understanding that right?

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Jay?

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Yeah.

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Um, so this conversation came about from like a few different kind of, um, I don't

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know, directions.

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One was there is a, um, a girl that I know, um, she said that she was like dating this

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guy.

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Everything was going really, really fine.

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Um, she really liked him, but then she found out that he had an Asian fetish.

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She was Asian.

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Um, and she immediately broke up with him on the spot.

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Like no questions asked.

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Like, nope, you're, you have an Asian fetish.

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I don't want to be a part of that.

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Um, have a good day.

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Goodbye.

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And interesting.

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It was, yeah, it was kind of interesting.

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Um, so, and it kind of almost seems like from like conversations online, it's kind

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of like that.

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Yeah.

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With, um, I guess like the trans community where it's like, oh, you have a fetish for

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late trans women, like, then no, don't like, we can't, obviously we can't speak for the

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whole entire community.

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We're only two people, but I would say probably there is women out there.

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Of the transgender variety that, you know, when they do find that out, they are, you

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know, a little weirded out, but then again, you know, there goes back to, I think we had

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this conversation last week about fetish.

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Like sometimes people just hear the word fetish and they instantly think of something negative.

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When it's, when it's generally not negative, it's actually something that, you know, is

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pleasurable or kind of just means fun or.

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It's like another word for preference.

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Yeah.

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So it's like, I think, I think people that, you know, break off relationships immediately

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without a conversation first, that might be a mistake because that could be the love of

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their life that they just ended things with for just, you know, a misunderstanding.

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So that's another thing conversation in my experience with Nikki conversation and being

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polyamorous conversation and communication and communication.

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Sorry.

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Communication is important and key for sure.

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Cause you can, you can do something on accident.

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And also I want to say hello to our, our guests that said hi to us.

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Hello.

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Hi.

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Welcome.

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Welcome.

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Welcome.

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Yeah.

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But I don't consider, you know, I don't think anyone's in the wrong there.

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That's for sure.

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Yeah.

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Everyone's different.

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What about our audience?

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What, what are they, what do they have to say about all this?

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Oh, Joe says, I think the term fetish has turned into the new taboo.

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Nice.

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Okay.

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Yeah, maybe.

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I don't know.

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I kind of think it's always been a little taboo when people start talking about like fetishes.

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It's like, people are immediately like, Oh, what's the fetish?

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What are we talking about?

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How many toes does she have?

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Yeah.

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Oh my goodness.

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I think it's just like a, like a complete, like, Oh, you're like into like weird, sick

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things, which I would argue like everyone has their own fetish.

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Oh, of course.

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Definitely.

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Yeah.

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Some are more like, I don't know.

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Mild.

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Really accepted than others.

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Oh, I don't know.

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More socially accepted.

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And yeah, generally more socially accepted just because they're so mild.

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Like, yeah, yeah, for sure.

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But was that all your questions on?

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Well, so kind of last question on this.

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So there is a content creator out there.

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He does videos on how to date trans females.

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I think it's very helpful.

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So some of her, some of her tips and included if you're seeking to date like a trans female

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female, then you have to have really good knee pads.

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Knee pads.

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Is that a requirement?

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I think it depends on the person, you know, depends on the people in that situation.

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What are they trying to protect their knees from?

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Yeah.

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I don't know.

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I'm just going to figure that out.

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She obviously has a humor.

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She also stated that you have to have a deep throat, which I don't know if that means like,

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you know, you need to eat your food really fast.

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If you're with her.

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There's no way to know what that could possibly mean.

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There's no way.

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Well, it's always polite to eat your food in all in one go.

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So you got to have a three D.

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You got to open that thing that go lit up, you know, what's this creator's name?

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Um, yeah.

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So if you guys want me to share it, it is Stephanie Kota's.

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I think it's Stephanie codes.

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I think it's Stephanie codes, maybe.

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Okay.

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Cool.

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Yeah.

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I can, uh, post that, um, in the, or shot for everyone.

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If you guys are interested, check her out.

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I actually, uh, I'm like all joking inside.

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I actually thought her content was really funny.

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Oh yeah.

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Oh, that's cool.

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I'll have to check her out.

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Yeah.

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I'll have to check her out.

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They're really short videos.

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I think, um, like Nikki, her sense of humor is like right up your alley.

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Um, yeah.

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Okay.

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Okay.

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I'll definitely have to, have to look, look it up.

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Stephanie code.

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Nice.

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Cool.

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All right.

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Well, or maybe it's Stephanie.

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I will, easy.

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Well, maybe I will give one advice, one, one bit of advice, just one, one bit of advice

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for what?

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For anyone trying to date trans woman or trans people specifically, get educated.

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But all you have to do is do a little tiny bit of research.

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So that way you're a little bit informed.

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So that way maybe you don't say something that's offensive that just literally destroys

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your first interaction with that person.

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Well, but at the same time, you don't want to do too much research and then show up.

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Like, Oh, don't be a know it all.

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Yeah.

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Don't be a know it all.

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But guess what I heard in the news today.

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Do some research, do some research, educate yourself a little bit, just a little bit.

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You know, it definitely helps.

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For sure.

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Yeah.

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I, I don't think you should ever try to, I don't know, like correct somebody on like,

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for instance, like hormone replacement therapy or something.

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Like, don't go actually read.

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Actually, yeah.

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While looking up a recipe for this cake, I found an article.

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I found an article stating that if you make everything out of pickles that it will help

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you do the beginning stages of HRT.

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God, I love pickles.

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All right.

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So yeah, just be so to recap one, be a decent human being second, do your research.

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Third, you know, I guess from your research, find out if you need to buy a good set of

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knee pads or not protective equipment, protective gear always necessary.

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And just stop being a overall a fuck boy.

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Just like, you know, set that as your bar of just like, all right, all right.

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Try to just get as far away from being a fuck boy as possible.

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You got this.

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Can do it.

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We have pain.

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I believe in you.

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Stop sending dick pics.

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Oh, gosh.

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Ask for them, you know, like.