June 10, 2023

Episode 6: ITS PRIDE MONTH BABY!!

Episode 6: ITS PRIDE MONTH BABY!!
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Welcome to our podcast, where we explore the intersections of BDSM, LGBT, Polyamory, and the adult industry. Our show is dedicated to creating a safe and inclusive space for open and honest conversations about these complex and often misunderstood topics. Join us as we as we share our experiences and insights on everything from kink and fetish play to navigating relationships in non-monogamous settings. We'll also delve into the world of the adult industry, examining the business and social aspects of this often-maligned profession. Our aim is to demystify and destigmatize these topics by providing an informative and entertaining platform for listeners to learn and engage with these diverse communities. Whether you're a seasoned veteran or just curious about these topics, our podcast has something for everyone.

  • It is here! PRIDE MONTH! Join us as we discuss what Pride means to each of us, kink at pride, Kid Rock and Bud Light, vocabulary, what we are wearing at Pride, our experiences at Pride, and more!

  • Thank you for our Supporters: ATEO and CRINGLORD

  • Music by LUNAVIXENXXX

100:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,240This claimer this podcast features explicit language and discussions sexual nature200:00:04,320 --> 00:00:09,700It may contain subjects uncomfortable to some please understand that the opinions shared on this podcast are not a representation300:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,300Of any organization or employer the host may be a part of400:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,600Welcome back everybody. Um500:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,160We're unnatural to some600:00:28,160 --> 00:00:34,720I think right uts on the address. Um, yeah, I don't like that acronym. Why not sounds too much like uti700:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,280Well, it sounds too much like bts800:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,280The k-pop group behind the scenes900:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,600Back to school1000:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,920What does bts stand for?1100:00:49,440 --> 00:00:55,360No, for real. No, I actually don't know what does bts stand for why do you look at me because it's a k-pop group1200:00:55,360 --> 00:01:03,060I don't even know who bt. I do know who bts but I have no idea what it stands for big tiny sweeties1300:01:09,360 --> 00:01:17,280Bacon tomato and scallions bacon tomato sandwich bacon tomato sandwich. That's what it stands for bacon tomato sandwich1400:01:18,380 --> 00:01:20,000bts1500:01:20,000 --> 00:01:27,780Stands for bring the steak bring bring the shiitake mushrooms1600:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,720Uh, so it sounds for bang tang1700:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,200Oh, i'm not gonna print i'm not gonna try that one but um1800:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,400bang tang boys1900:01:38,640 --> 00:01:43,200And it's evidently translated to mean bulletproof boy scouts2000:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,080You know bts is a good2100:01:46,080 --> 00:01:52,960Yeah, yeah, it's good that they went with bts and not well there they are a k-pop group from korea as I yeah2200:01:53,360 --> 00:01:58,400Got really popular in america. I'm just saying like if their name was bulletproof boy scouts2300:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,580It would probably not go as well as bts2400:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,640bts with a t t as in2500:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,680tom2600:02:09,920 --> 00:02:13,780T as in bring the steak exactly2700:02:13,780 --> 00:02:14,820Well2800:02:14,820 --> 00:02:20,980That's not anyways, that's yeah, we didn't gather around like we didn't turn on all the cameras and gather around these mics to talk about2900:02:21,860 --> 00:02:28,500uh k-pop groups now, did we welcome back to the unnatural some podcast today we're I think we're gonna talk about some3000:02:28,820 --> 00:02:36,260Things dealing with pride. It's pride month. It's time to talk about pride happy talk about trans pride3100:02:37,620 --> 00:02:42,040kink pride bd sm pride pride and polyamory3200:02:42,040 --> 00:02:49,320pride and just being you and I think we should I think we should give our own personal, you know feedback on that because3300:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,000pride means something different for everyone3400:02:53,720 --> 00:02:59,960And anytime I have been to an event pride event anytime that I've talked to someone about pride. It's always3500:03:00,600 --> 00:03:09,560About how what it means to them and it's very important to me to always talk to people about that because pride means different things to everyone3600:03:09,560 --> 00:03:14,680And that's what we're here today today to discuss and maybe we might have some fun later3700:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,400uh with some tie-dye3800:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040We're tie-dying shirts, right?3900:03:20,040 --> 00:03:24,280Yeah, something like this. Oh, you already did one. This is not what our shirts are gonna look like4000:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,880It's going to say unnatural some on them. Hopefully fall goes well. We may have some extras for4100:03:30,840 --> 00:03:35,000Uh, those of you that support us and you know those of you that are watching4200:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,040But4300:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,720Right. Maybe um, if we do have some extra t-shirts4400:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,360Maybe we'll just drop into our discord and just toss them out to a few active members4500:03:44,360 --> 00:03:50,200So if you want to become a member of our discord and interact and mingle with us, maybe get some4600:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,760Occasional free stuff can't promise anything then click on the link below4700:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,960Where?4800:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,960Right there right here4900:03:59,960 --> 00:04:01,960Right there5000:04:01,960 --> 00:04:07,720Right there right here right there the link. Oh down here click the link5100:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,560The below link it's the it's the bell icon5200:04:12,600 --> 00:04:17,740Oh that link. Yes, and I think the bell icon makes them get notifications5300:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,160Which you should click by the way always always click that bell icon5400:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,920You always want to get the reminders5500:04:24,920 --> 00:04:30,120We always want to be updated on when we get these new videos up because i've been working my butt off5600:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,120on editing these things so5700:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,320Yeah, you have and the autopod has been a blessing. Thank you. Once again atio5800:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,360Is it at or atio?5900:04:40,360 --> 00:04:41,400Atio?6000:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,400Tomato tomato6100:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,400Tomato tomato6200:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,400Atio6300:04:47,400 --> 00:04:52,600Thank you, and thank you to all of our patreon supporters. We greatly appreciate you. Yes6400:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,400Thank you also6500:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,400Thank you for our kofi6600:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,400supporters so6700:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,400So cringe lord, thank you again6800:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,880Yes. Yeah, thanks for all that coffee6900:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,840Coffee that's gonna that's definitely gonna go7000:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,440That's gonna be used. Yeah7100:05:10,840 --> 00:05:18,840We're avid coffee drinkers. Yeah, even though it's not like like we said, it's just somewhere you can support people but like our creators7200:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,600It's not specifically for coffee, but I love how it sounds it just sounds like it's for coffee7300:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,080Come to kofi buy us a cup of coffee7400:05:27,080 --> 00:05:32,600Yeah, I think when they donate it says like, you know buy a natural to some a cup of coffee7500:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,320Does it make the like like does it make the like the little?7600:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,520noise when you pay like the like the7700:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,080And that was a really bad impression of a cup being filled up with coffee. I know7800:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,720Oh my goodness, I think we drink different coffee. Yeah7900:05:54,020 --> 00:05:56,020Possibly8000:05:56,020 --> 00:06:00,180Oh gosh, what are we talking about today? We're talking about kofi. Okay8100:06:00,980 --> 00:06:03,220No, oh we're here for pride8200:06:03,940 --> 00:06:05,940Yeah, we're gonna talk about pride8300:06:06,020 --> 00:06:07,700What it means to us?8400:06:07,700 --> 00:06:09,220and8500:06:09,220 --> 00:06:11,220How it makes us feel?8600:06:11,540 --> 00:06:15,140And yeah, just how are you feeling because it's it's pride month. So like8700:06:15,780 --> 00:06:19,540How do you feel about that? Let's I mean have you been to pride jay?8800:06:20,340 --> 00:06:25,300That's a good question. Have you ever been to pride? So this will be my first pride parade8900:06:25,300 --> 00:06:26,900Oh, that's exciting9000:06:26,900 --> 00:06:28,900Um very I hope so9100:06:29,540 --> 00:06:31,540Yeah, so typically, uh,9200:06:32,100 --> 00:06:37,240As you as you know, i'm typically a pretty big ally for the community9300:06:38,180 --> 00:06:41,000Uh for the lgbtqia plus community9400:06:41,620 --> 00:06:42,820however9500:06:42,820 --> 00:06:48,260the past few years typically in pride like during pride month, I try to9600:06:49,380 --> 00:06:51,380Turn internet off and kind of not9700:06:51,380 --> 00:06:54,580Read things because so first of all one9800:06:55,220 --> 00:07:00,820I do see a lot of like anti lgbtqia stuff. I just don't want to read and then second9900:07:01,300 --> 00:07:03,300it seems like every year there is a10000:07:03,940 --> 00:07:05,940huge debate between10100:07:06,260 --> 00:07:07,460the kink10200:07:07,460 --> 00:07:13,540slash bdsm community and also the lgbtqia plus community on if10300:07:14,260 --> 00:07:18,500kink and bdsm should be welcome at the pride parade so10400:07:18,500 --> 00:07:23,460And it gets kind of heated between the two groups and I just I try to like turn it off. So10500:07:26,100 --> 00:07:30,740That's understandable I I know some people are kind of divided over that topic10600:07:31,620 --> 00:07:35,700I I totally understand social media is kind of hard to consume around pride10700:07:36,260 --> 00:07:39,940It I love the fact that there's a lot of you know public10800:07:40,900 --> 00:07:46,740You know be proud of who you are. I'm in support of uh the lgbtqia plus community10900:07:46,740 --> 00:07:48,740there's there's companies like11000:07:49,140 --> 00:07:50,420Bud light11100:07:50,420 --> 00:07:56,820That are very very open about it and just and just promoting us and putting us out there more which is11200:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,360Fantastic in my opinion11300:07:59,380 --> 00:08:04,420But also there's the other side of it, which you're just talking about and that's that's kind of11400:08:05,300 --> 00:08:10,020It makes sense to do something like that because it's hard. I mean corporations11500:08:11,460 --> 00:08:13,940Highlighting lgbtq people11600:08:13,940 --> 00:08:18,020The month leading up to pride is that really support or is that?11700:08:18,820 --> 00:08:20,820sales11800:08:21,620 --> 00:08:23,620It is sales11900:08:23,700 --> 00:08:25,700It is however12000:08:26,260 --> 00:08:28,660So i've seen this debate online12100:08:29,220 --> 00:08:33,300You know people are like, oh, they're only supporting us because they know they can make money off of us now12200:08:33,620 --> 00:08:38,740Well, yeah, because we want all of those fancy rainbow things for our rainbow party. We want it to be all you know12300:08:40,020 --> 00:08:42,020Pretty everything that we want to do12400:08:42,020 --> 00:08:44,020pretty everything to12500:08:44,900 --> 00:08:46,900Go together. Yeah12600:08:47,460 --> 00:08:53,780But on the contrary of that, I would argue having companies realize that they can market12700:08:55,460 --> 00:08:56,980Pride12800:08:56,980 --> 00:09:00,900Is actually a really good thing because now when when you go to stores12900:09:01,460 --> 00:09:08,980You know, they'll often have like a rainbow section. So it's kind of like in people's faces more it's becoming more normalized. I mean13000:09:08,980 --> 00:09:11,400everything every market13100:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,360right every quote acceptable13200:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,160market13300:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,160Is something that13400:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,080You know sells agencies try to make money off of13500:09:23,640 --> 00:09:29,240So I I see it as like a good thing like you're you're reaching that level. You're becoming more normalized13600:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,880Yeah, because like I would like to see it13700:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,160Outside of pride months too every now and then though13800:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,960You know, yeah13900:09:37,960 --> 00:09:45,000I baby steps. That's all that that's all my point was baby steps, you know, like getting I I feel like it's good14000:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,480Because we're getting commercials14100:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,480We're have we're seeing14200:09:49,640 --> 00:09:55,480gay and trans content creators be in public commercials on public brands like14300:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,520like bud light like I was mentioning mentioning and it's it's a really good thing because14400:10:01,240 --> 00:10:05,080You see trans people and gay people more in a public eye14500:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,080But also it's a scary thing because the more public you are about things14600:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,800the more hateful or the more public people are about being hateful and14700:10:14,680 --> 00:10:19,160It's it's it comes with you know, it's positive and negatives for sure14800:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,680So and no one's wrong on that fight14900:10:23,160 --> 00:10:27,320Like on either side as far as like it being helpful or being unhelpful15000:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,080I just hope there's other beers to choose from besides bud light15100:10:31,080 --> 00:10:35,240I heard like course light and stuff was getting on that band. Okay, cool. There's there's a lot of15200:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,000Yeah, I believe a lot of beer companies are jumping on so15300:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,320Yeah, yeah, I don't want to only drink bud light, you know15400:10:43,960 --> 00:10:45,960Yeah, exactly. Yeah15500:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,240Yeah, so in general I've not typically I'm more like a behind-the-scenes kind of guy just15600:10:53,240 --> 00:10:59,480Mm-hmm. I like I've been on a couple of different boards do work leading up to pride15700:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,280Mm-hmm, that's about it. I will say15800:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,800one of the major pushes this year is15900:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,240Living now in Seattle and then also16000:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,200The pride board that I'm a part of now16100:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,440I feel like is very accepting and understanding of kink and bdsm16200:11:17,080 --> 00:11:21,560And I know they're doing a lot of work to kind of bring more light to the world16300:11:21,560 --> 00:11:26,220To kind of bring more light to kink bdsm and polyamory16400:11:26,680 --> 00:11:28,680So that to me is more16500:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,080I feel like inclusive16600:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,080So i'm like, okay like cool16700:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,640Maybe it's different out here16800:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,920Yeah, I mean at least like recognition in general is just16900:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,880Cool you exist17000:11:42,040 --> 00:11:42,920Yay17100:11:42,920 --> 00:11:44,920Thank you. Thank you for noticing17200:11:45,480 --> 00:11:46,920cool17300:11:46,920 --> 00:11:52,040so you've never been to one how's it making you feel about going to this one aside from like17400:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,920Feeling like sometimes bdsm and kink could be left out of17500:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,480The pride event because you you're an ally but also you want to be a part17600:12:03,960 --> 00:12:09,080Of it as not just an ally but someone that is proud to be who they are17700:12:10,760 --> 00:12:11,960So17800:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,160Yes, I to pride in me is all about17900:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,160being yourself18000:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,720And that's that's something that i've kind of18100:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,720with other18200:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,520My other experiences with like pride boards, you know18300:12:24,520 --> 00:12:29,160They say like love is love and then when they find out that there's this like kink and bdsm side18400:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,200They're like, okay love is love except for that kind of love18500:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,480Like that doesn't have room here that really bothers me18600:12:35,480 --> 00:12:40,360So to me like pride is all about being yourself love is love18700:12:40,360 --> 00:12:48,600Love is love the the argument that kink and bdsm doesn't belong in pride is people automatically kind of jump to the18800:12:49,320 --> 00:12:56,280Oh, like we're gonna see people being led around like dogs and people are gonna be naked and having sex and being18900:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,760Whipped in the streets and like, you know, my children didn't consent to that at all19000:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,440That's like that is one area that I do struggle with because it's like19100:13:06,440 --> 00:13:11,880Like the biggest thing about bdsm is consent. So how can you take that?19200:13:13,460 --> 00:13:15,240Extreme19300:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,880Side of bdsm and put it put it into the streets19400:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,440however19500:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,440The stuff that i've seen I you know19600:13:22,680 --> 00:13:28,840I I feel like there's people on both sides that will always take it to the extreme just like for instance in seattle every year19700:13:28,920 --> 00:13:29,800there's the19800:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,800forgot what it's called but19900:13:31,800 --> 00:13:36,360Um, they're they do the the naked bike20000:13:37,480 --> 00:13:42,920Oh, I know what you're talking. I can't remember what it's called. But yeah, they have a naked bike by grace naked mile or something20100:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,800Something that's a movie. Oh, yeah, that's right. Okay, my bad20200:13:48,360 --> 00:13:49,400But i'm just kind of like okay20300:13:49,400 --> 00:13:54,040So if a child came across that, you know, they obviously didn't consent to that20400:13:54,120 --> 00:13:58,600You know, like is that like is that walled off somehow with like 15 foot walls?20500:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,800Well, I mean it goes back to what you were saying every group20600:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,800has an unreasonable person in it, yeah, so20700:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,200You know, yeah that doesn't represent20800:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,600Our community. Yeah, you know and for me20900:14:15,560 --> 00:14:19,400You know if I was going to represent the bdsm community at a pride parade21000:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,640I'm not going to be like wearing, you know21100:14:21,640 --> 00:14:26,280I'm not going to be on my all fours naked as a dog and you know stuff like that21200:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,840I think a lot of people go to pride and they they want to go there and like this is my identity21300:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,160And that's like and I get that21400:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,080but21500:14:35,080 --> 00:14:38,680You know, maybe not be naked at a public event. You know, that's really21600:14:39,240 --> 00:14:40,360Yeah21700:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,360You know the big thing there21800:14:42,360 --> 00:14:47,480Even when because it's and that's weird because that pride i've seen so much nudity21900:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,880like seriously, especially with the bigger city prides like22000:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,880It's almost expected that you're going to see some kind of like22100:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,040nakedness22200:14:58,040 --> 00:15:04,280Now I mean and that doesn't bother me, but I understand I understand where becomes a problem22300:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,040And I I just think22400:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,600I just think like in pride in general like22500:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,080We're just they're all celebrating to be proud. So if someone wants to22600:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,800wear a collar and22700:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,480whip their partner22800:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,760Well, that is an adult space that we're at22900:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,440Yeah, as long as there's consent being had then there shouldn't be an issue23000:15:24,440 --> 00:15:30,680They're just celebrating who they are in a public space where we're supposed to be comfortable and proud of ourselves23100:15:31,320 --> 00:15:36,760And if we can't include other people in that then we're being the opposite of what our cause is about23200:15:37,080 --> 00:15:40,280And that's why i'm just like I get confused when23300:15:40,840 --> 00:15:45,160When when you're like when you bring up those like how people can be23400:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,160exclusive23500:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,000Towards the bdsm and king community because i'm like that's not what23600:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,520right, that's not what our movement's about it's about23700:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,560Being included in society23800:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,640the smaller diverse groups being included23900:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,400So you're gonna spank me at pride24000:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,200Is that what you said?24100:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,760Uh, maybe24200:16:10,760 --> 00:16:12,760Okay24300:16:13,560 --> 00:16:14,600Don't ban us24400:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,120My first pride was last year jay, so oh cool. Yeah24500:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,580I I went to pride up in vancouver24600:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,320With uh24700:16:25,320 --> 00:16:27,320sephira and24800:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,320Her partner24900:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,320And that was a fun experience25000:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,280I went dressed up as a slutty25100:16:35,080 --> 00:16:40,440police officer and I had my paddle with me and I was offering out free spankings25200:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,240Nice that was a real thing25300:16:43,720 --> 00:16:50,440Did you get any so you were actually doing some kind of displaying some kind of kink and25400:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,600bdsm in a way25500:16:52,600 --> 00:16:56,440Did you get any like negative looks or anything? Oh, no everyone like25600:16:57,080 --> 00:17:01,880Everyone was like super happy. Oh, yeah. Yeah, it was fun. A lot of people were laughing and like25700:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,800offering out their fannies for for looks25800:17:05,800 --> 00:17:10,360And there were a few female police officers that were there that were like25900:17:11,000 --> 00:17:17,960Hey, what's up? No, that's that's that's wholesome. Yeah, they're like, oh you you work for my department26000:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,760Don't you oh the special department of spankings?26100:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,640Yeah, so it's it's funny that you mentioned that because that's literally what I did last year26200:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,520Nice. Yeah. Yeah26300:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,200I've never been to a26400:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,200Quite as fun of an event as you have26500:17:32,200 --> 00:17:39,560I remember you telling me about it and it's on like, oh you went in vancouver. So it wasn't on the beach vancouver bc. Yeah26600:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,080It actually it wasn't it was26700:17:43,800 --> 00:17:50,680So the parade I can't remember what the name of the street was but it actually went by the water. Oh, that's nice26800:17:50,680 --> 00:17:54,360Yeah, so it was super cool. We kind of really nice we uh26900:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,720Followed along down the road and then we went and hung out27000:17:57,720 --> 00:18:02,440You know by the water for a little bit then went down to the beach. That's not bad at all. Yeah27100:18:03,720 --> 00:18:08,200Have you so you never been to like I haven't been to pride here yet though27200:18:08,760 --> 00:18:14,600You should know that we live together. I know but like before I met you. I didn't know if you've been no27300:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,400Yeah. Yeah. Yeah never went to pride in florida27400:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,640So still technically I haven't been to pride in america yet27500:18:21,640 --> 00:18:27,000Oh, this is going to be our first pride event in america in america. Yeah27600:18:27,320 --> 00:18:28,200cool27700:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,800That's that's actually really cool. My first american pride27800:18:32,680 --> 00:18:37,800What was your favorite part about the pride that you went to in vancouver?27900:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,120Oh, um28000:18:40,120 --> 00:18:42,120Spanking people. Yeah28100:18:42,680 --> 00:18:46,120I was gonna say spanking people. Well, funny thing you mentioned28200:18:46,120 --> 00:18:52,520No, we my favorite part was that we got an actual like location28300:18:53,320 --> 00:18:57,000That had bar access that was like on the street28400:18:57,160 --> 00:19:03,000So and it was like fenced in so it kind of felt like we had our like own little private venue. Oh, that's cool28500:19:03,800 --> 00:19:09,240And we were just having our pictures of drinks and we had our flags and28600:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,120And I care about the people that we were with28700:19:12,120 --> 00:19:17,960We had our pictures of drinks and we had our flags and and I can't remember. I think there were beads being thrown28800:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,400Yeah, I got beads28900:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,720Did they require the flashing of tits? No. Oh29000:19:22,360 --> 00:19:24,040three means29100:19:24,040 --> 00:19:30,760I think that might be like a florida thing. Oh, no, I think that's no way. I thought that's not you're talking about gasparilla29200:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,480I was thinking about spring break29300:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,720but every year gasparilla, that's where all the29400:19:36,760 --> 00:19:41,560The beads no the bead parade gasparilla in tampa. No, i'm talking29500:19:41,560 --> 00:19:47,320I'm thinking about nolens and and i've already grown. Did you just say nolens? Yeah, that's how they say it down there29600:19:47,320 --> 00:19:51,320Okay, you've never been i'm talking to wait. Wait, hold on. I have29700:19:51,960 --> 00:19:55,000I have been to new orleans. You have yes, how many times?29800:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,400Like wait, what did you say three or four times? I thought you said was nolens29900:19:59,960 --> 00:20:01,960You told me not to call it that30000:20:02,120 --> 00:20:04,120You're so obedient30100:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,520Oh god30200:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,780Oh geez well, so my experience is gasparilla30300:20:10,780 --> 00:20:12,780in30400:20:12,780 --> 00:20:14,300eboard30500:20:14,300 --> 00:20:15,500oh30600:20:15,500 --> 00:20:19,740So it's kind of like a mini marty graw down there. Yeah. Oh, that's cool30700:20:19,900 --> 00:20:23,100I mean, that's my only experience with like marty graw-esque30800:20:23,820 --> 00:20:26,300You know experience. It's just it's more pirates30900:20:26,860 --> 00:20:29,180Is there any nudity at the vancouver one?31000:20:30,380 --> 00:20:32,060In vancouver?31100:20:32,060 --> 00:20:37,740Uh, I saw men straight up wearing like you've ever wrapped a present31200:20:37,740 --> 00:20:39,740You know just the bow31300:20:40,380 --> 00:20:44,060Oh, wow, imagine that just just a bit on a man31400:20:44,700 --> 00:20:47,020That's what i'm wearing in a specific spot31500:20:47,820 --> 00:20:50,380Just the bow just the bow. Yeah31600:20:51,020 --> 00:20:53,580Interesting, so it did cover up31700:20:54,220 --> 00:20:55,420surprisingly31800:20:55,420 --> 00:20:56,860Oh, yeah31900:20:56,860 --> 00:21:03,580I'm thinking it's a large bow, but it did not leave a lot to the imagination. You're like, okay32000:21:03,580 --> 00:21:07,260That's what's going on. We know what's what's behind the bow32100:21:09,820 --> 00:21:15,180Did so you said you got your own like private little shindig did the parade go by yeah32200:21:15,740 --> 00:21:20,460Well, that's what we it was literally right by the road that the parade was going down32300:21:21,500 --> 00:21:22,620and32400:21:22,620 --> 00:21:25,580It was like a pub. I think with32500:21:27,020 --> 00:21:30,620An opening that came out with like a little gated area32600:21:30,620 --> 00:21:34,300And it was looking out over the street. So32700:21:35,340 --> 00:21:37,660Yeah, I didn't I might be over explaining that32800:21:38,700 --> 00:21:45,420With her that's why i'm asking you. Yeah, she didn't go to pride with me last year. No, I was I don't think I was feeling good32900:21:47,100 --> 00:21:52,220Around June, I think I last year in the summer. I was having a lot of stomach issues33000:21:52,540 --> 00:21:54,540So this will be our first pride together33100:21:54,780 --> 00:21:58,380Yeah, she was planning on coming with us last year, but she just cancelled33200:21:58,380 --> 00:22:00,380Last minute. So what are you guys wearing this year?33300:22:01,980 --> 00:22:05,660I believe we're wearing those tie-dye shirts. We're gonna make33400:22:06,460 --> 00:22:09,660Allegedly allegedly. Okay. Okay. So33500:22:10,300 --> 00:22:16,140After we we do this episode, we are making shirts and if it goes well, like I was saying earlier33600:22:16,460 --> 00:22:22,380Hopefully there will be why are you shaking your head? No, it'll go well. I'm sure hopefully there will be footage of33700:22:23,180 --> 00:22:26,140The shirts being made and then look they're magic33800:22:26,140 --> 00:22:31,180Again. Yes. Yes, and hopefully it'll look great. It'll look great like this one33900:22:33,100 --> 00:22:36,300Yeah, yeah, yeah we can wear them on our next episode maybe34000:22:37,020 --> 00:22:37,900Yeah34100:22:37,900 --> 00:22:42,140Yeah, it'll still like if they don't look like it'll still be pride month. Yeah34200:22:43,100 --> 00:22:47,180It's a month of pride baby. Yeah. Yeah, it's a month of pride34300:22:48,620 --> 00:22:50,620Speaking of which you have not34400:22:51,260 --> 00:22:53,260So you have not been to the parade34500:22:53,260 --> 00:22:59,100You have not been to you have a pride event. It doesn't have to be a parade necessarily pride event. Oh34600:22:59,580 --> 00:23:01,580in in in june34700:23:02,140 --> 00:23:06,780Oh, it's specifically in june. Yeah during pride month because that's usually when it's the biggest34800:23:07,820 --> 00:23:08,300Um34900:23:08,300 --> 00:23:11,260Parade's not necessarily a parade just like an event35000:23:12,380 --> 00:23:19,500No, no, I think I have I think I think typically like the pride events. I've gone to have not been in june35100:23:19,500 --> 00:23:22,380The pride events i've gone to you have not been in june35200:23:23,180 --> 00:23:25,180Has anybody ever noticed how much?35300:23:26,220 --> 00:23:28,220Jay says typically35400:23:29,260 --> 00:23:34,060Well, I typically don't know I typically think jay typically says it between35500:23:34,780 --> 00:23:37,740I find it more interesting something that is interesting35600:23:39,900 --> 00:23:44,060Typically the interesting things that I find are typically typical35700:23:44,060 --> 00:23:48,460Uh topical topical. Yes. Topical. Yeah35800:23:51,020 --> 00:23:52,460What were we talking about35900:23:52,460 --> 00:23:56,940Well, I think we're talking about what we're gonna wear. Yeah, so tie-dye shirts36000:23:57,660 --> 00:23:59,660Probably some booty shorts36100:23:59,900 --> 00:24:01,020Yeah36200:24:01,020 --> 00:24:06,540If you don't have booty shorts yet jay you can get some you have time. I I have some yeah36300:24:07,020 --> 00:24:09,020Yeah, I have some of the um36400:24:09,420 --> 00:24:11,420like the daisy dukes36500:24:11,420 --> 00:24:15,340Hmm. Yeah dukes of the daisy. So the dress code is36600:24:16,140 --> 00:24:20,300Tie-dye a natural some shirts if it goes well, otherwise, it's just gonna36700:24:20,940 --> 00:24:25,100Say a natural some and look really bad. Is that the shirt you're wearing? No36800:24:25,580 --> 00:24:28,560Um and booty shorts. So are you gonna get some booty shorts?36900:24:36,780 --> 00:24:38,940Okay, um37000:24:38,940 --> 00:24:44,700You know, i'm not really sure audience. What do you think just kidding? We don't have time to survey you. Um37100:24:45,580 --> 00:24:47,580man37200:24:48,220 --> 00:24:53,900I think if I was like in my physical prime, I wouldn't have issue wearing booty shorts, but37300:24:54,780 --> 00:24:56,780Jay's getting some weight37400:24:56,860 --> 00:25:04,300Getting some weight. No one wants to see like oh, come on. I find cargo pants. Yeah, I guess you can wear cargo pants37500:25:04,380 --> 00:25:06,860Oh, no, i'll talk to the to the wifey37600:25:06,860 --> 00:25:08,860To see what she thinks about37700:25:09,340 --> 00:25:14,780Daisy dukes. No, you get some like oh we were joking. We're joking. Oh wait. No for real though37800:25:15,020 --> 00:25:19,100You could not booty shorts, but you should get the chubby shorts. They have gay pride ones37900:25:19,180 --> 00:25:26,220Oh, those are so cute. Yeah, my our boyfriend has one chubby. Yeah chubby's they're really good chubby's38000:25:26,300 --> 00:25:33,660They're great board short or shorts to wear around the house for your boyfriend chubby's if you're looking for a new person38100:25:33,660 --> 00:25:39,340To sponsor your material so you're gonna go for the the the the short shorts too38200:25:39,580 --> 00:25:43,660I might I don't know anything about it. I need to see if these can get you're in time38300:25:43,900 --> 00:25:47,980Hang on. Let me just add them in the cart anyways continue my get head on casting38400:25:48,620 --> 00:25:54,620Your podcast thing booty short is like I got over to these booty shorts. Are you trying to get hit on the pride?38500:25:55,740 --> 00:25:56,860so38600:25:56,860 --> 00:25:59,740my uh, I've I have actually been to pride38700:26:00,620 --> 00:26:02,380I haven't been to like38800:26:02,380 --> 00:26:05,420I've seen the the parade go by but I haven't actually part38900:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,680participated in a parade39000:26:09,660 --> 00:26:13,580But i've been to a pride event in pensacola florida actually I think i've been to two of them39100:26:14,300 --> 00:26:15,820and it's39200:26:15,820 --> 00:26:17,820it's really nice like39300:26:17,820 --> 00:26:23,180especially with the smaller cities because you can you see a lot more of your friends there and39400:26:23,500 --> 00:26:28,380You make a group of your friends and you get together you go hit up like like what you're doing39500:26:28,380 --> 00:26:33,820You go to a bar restaurant that's in on like the street of the pride event and39600:26:34,380 --> 00:26:41,020In pensacola, it would go through like the downtown pensacola area the town. I don't know you have either of you been39700:26:41,660 --> 00:26:43,660Uh, I mean i've been to pensacola39800:26:44,220 --> 00:26:51,820Yeah, yeah where the all like the bars are up on the street pride parade goes down that way and the event's all over there39900:26:51,900 --> 00:26:55,660So we were just like hopping all the bars just hanging out and having fun40000:26:55,660 --> 00:27:01,660And it's just great seeing all the pride flags all the banners all the flyers40100:27:01,900 --> 00:27:05,580They even did like an event where they did a uh, like a film festival40200:27:05,900 --> 00:27:07,580I forgot exactly what they called it40300:27:07,580 --> 00:27:14,560But at nighttime they had a little film festival at that venue on the corner in downtown pensacola40400:27:14,860 --> 00:27:18,380They have a lot of bands live bands and stuff and it was really nice40500:27:18,460 --> 00:27:22,220like it wasn't like a uh, like an adult film festival it was just like40600:27:22,220 --> 00:27:25,020people that are part of the community that are40700:27:25,820 --> 00:27:33,180Photographers or videographers or actors or actresses displaying their skills and um coming together on projects40800:27:33,820 --> 00:27:36,460Do you miss it? Uh pride in pensacola?40900:27:37,100 --> 00:27:40,380A little bit. I did have some close friends there. Um41000:27:41,100 --> 00:27:42,220and41100:27:42,220 --> 00:27:49,180We did have a lot of fun during pride. I definitely and and I did I felt passionate when I lived there about41200:27:49,180 --> 00:27:54,220You know fighting for trans rights. I wasn't as active as I could have been41300:27:54,700 --> 00:27:59,340Because I had my own struggles I was going through and I wish I could go back and do more41400:28:00,140 --> 00:28:05,420But yeah, I I do miss it. Sometimes i'm excited to start41500:28:05,740 --> 00:28:08,380Going to the pride events out here because I heard they're41600:28:09,500 --> 00:28:11,500Uh, they're much much different41700:28:11,820 --> 00:28:17,820From uh, pensacola pride or any florida pride in that matter. So you're excited. You're excited41800:28:17,820 --> 00:28:19,820to go to pride here. I am too41900:28:20,460 --> 00:28:25,020And i'm excited for us to go together for the first time. Yeah, me too42000:28:25,900 --> 00:28:32,060Mm-hmm, and i'm really excited that the first time that we're going together is the first time i'm going with one of my friends42100:28:33,260 --> 00:28:34,300Yeah42200:28:34,300 --> 00:28:41,180Yeah, that is exciting. It's super exciting and you're bringing your wifey. Yep. It's awesome42300:28:42,140 --> 00:28:44,140awesome42400:28:44,140 --> 00:28:49,020It really is like yeah like um42500:28:52,300 --> 00:28:54,860Yeah, yeah pride42600:28:58,700 --> 00:29:00,700Pride pride42700:29:01,420 --> 00:29:07,740So pride it's i've i've i'm the only one that has been to an event in america42800:29:07,740 --> 00:29:13,980Yeah, we talked about a little bit of you know, the events that we've been to or haven't been to42900:29:14,780 --> 00:29:15,660but43000:29:15,660 --> 00:29:19,420We still haven't gotten like what does pride really mean to each one of us?43100:29:20,060 --> 00:29:21,980What does it mean?43200:29:21,980 --> 00:29:28,380At its core not because of the event not because of the month but day to day every day of your life43300:29:28,780 --> 00:29:31,660Or even whenever you found out you were different43400:29:32,220 --> 00:29:34,220What did it mean to you?43500:29:34,220 --> 00:29:40,140And i guess we can we can start with you jay, you know, like even you haven't put your opinion in in a second43600:29:41,020 --> 00:29:43,020Hello43700:29:43,100 --> 00:29:50,620So, I mean to me it's all about just being able to be yourself no matter what that is43800:29:53,020 --> 00:29:55,180If you want to be a unicorn you can be a unicorn43900:29:57,260 --> 00:29:59,260Really yeah44000:29:59,660 --> 00:30:01,180so44100:30:01,180 --> 00:30:03,180I am a unicorn44200:30:03,180 --> 00:30:05,260What you what sound does a unicorn make?44300:30:11,420 --> 00:30:13,420Okay, uh44400:30:14,300 --> 00:30:17,660That's the sound of a unicorn die never getting a pet unicorn44500:30:19,420 --> 00:30:24,940Is that all that means to you though, it's just it's just i think proud of who you are. I mean at its44600:30:25,900 --> 00:30:27,580like44700:30:27,580 --> 00:30:29,580At its value of of a word44800:30:29,580 --> 00:30:32,780Well, I think it's more than just a word it's it's like44900:30:34,140 --> 00:30:35,100like45000:30:35,100 --> 00:30:39,180Being strong being who you are no matter what people think45100:30:39,900 --> 00:30:41,100you know not45200:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,140uh45300:30:42,140 --> 00:30:49,260Not worrying about others opinions when someone gives you hate you stand above it and you don't give into it you45400:30:50,060 --> 00:30:52,060You don't fight back. You just like45500:30:52,780 --> 00:30:57,180It doesn't even bother me like sometimes i'm so proud of being who I am45600:30:57,180 --> 00:31:02,300someone could call me a horrible slur and i'm just like that's you know45700:31:03,020 --> 00:31:05,020I hope you have a great day45800:31:05,100 --> 00:31:11,420Really? I do and they'll be like I really hate you. You're a terrible person. I'm like, but I I honestly45900:31:11,820 --> 00:31:15,980I really hope you're having a good day. Like I hope you have a great week46000:31:16,540 --> 00:31:19,340And I really hope whatever's bothering you at the moment46100:31:19,900 --> 00:31:21,900It fades soon46200:31:22,780 --> 00:31:25,340Because sometimes I just like that's how I feel46300:31:25,340 --> 00:31:28,460When you're proud nothing can bother you46400:31:29,820 --> 00:31:32,140And that's what the celebration is about is being46500:31:32,700 --> 00:31:35,180as loudly proud as you can46600:31:36,380 --> 00:31:37,900it's just46700:31:37,900 --> 00:31:39,900Being proud of who you are46800:31:40,300 --> 00:31:42,300despite46900:31:42,300 --> 00:31:43,820society47000:31:43,820 --> 00:31:45,820Trying to tell you otherwise47100:31:46,620 --> 00:31:53,100Trying to tell you that it's not okay to be who you are and trying to hide that like deep inside47200:31:53,100 --> 00:31:56,140and trying to hide that like deep down all the time47300:31:57,260 --> 00:31:59,580and pride's the place where you could47400:32:00,620 --> 00:32:02,940Pride's the place where you should be able to go47500:32:03,660 --> 00:32:05,020Be loud47600:32:05,020 --> 00:32:07,420And everybody there is like yeah47700:32:08,700 --> 00:32:10,460exactly47800:32:10,460 --> 00:32:11,660family47900:32:11,660 --> 00:32:13,660sister brother48000:32:14,940 --> 00:32:16,940Fist bump fist bump48100:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,440Unicorns48200:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,420Unicorns no matter how they sound48300:32:25,100 --> 00:32:27,820In my world they do sound pretty messed up48400:32:29,100 --> 00:32:31,100But yeah48500:32:31,100 --> 00:32:33,820Pride what does pride mean to me? Yeah48600:32:34,780 --> 00:32:36,940What does pride mean to me? You tell me48700:32:39,340 --> 00:32:41,340I have no idea. Okay. I'm not you48800:32:41,900 --> 00:32:43,900What does it mean to you?48900:32:43,900 --> 00:32:45,420Not just a word49000:32:45,420 --> 00:32:47,420but like it could be49100:32:47,420 --> 00:32:54,780Pride the event the you know that what does that mean to you or pride like I mean I kind of like what I was saying before49200:32:55,020 --> 00:32:57,020pride49300:32:59,340 --> 00:33:01,020Being prideful49400:33:01,020 --> 00:33:06,540You know, it's it's being able to be loud about who you are49500:33:07,420 --> 00:33:09,100despite49600:33:09,100 --> 00:33:12,060Everything around you trying to silence you49700:33:14,540 --> 00:33:16,380You know49800:33:16,380 --> 00:33:21,900Yeah, trying to live in a box all the time trying to live in the right box all the time49900:33:23,580 --> 00:33:27,020Pride is a place where you don't have to worry about that50000:33:28,540 --> 00:33:30,220Oh50100:33:30,220 --> 00:33:31,820Just everyone50200:33:31,820 --> 00:33:35,260Being accepting I guess that's another part of pride50300:33:35,900 --> 00:33:37,900is the just like50400:33:38,140 --> 00:33:40,780accept acceptance and accepting like50500:33:40,780 --> 00:33:47,820And I I hope everyone is able to go out and celebrate pride this year safely50600:33:48,380 --> 00:33:53,580Yeah, I know there's a lot of places right now that are canceling events and50700:33:54,140 --> 00:34:01,980Not all places are probably the the friendliest places to host a pride event, but hopefully everyone at least has50800:34:02,940 --> 00:34:09,660like a friend or something where they can go to and have like a little party at their house50900:34:09,660 --> 00:34:11,660Yeah, and51000:34:11,980 --> 00:34:18,460But be get out there be proud of who you are be public about it. It's it's time to51100:34:19,500 --> 00:34:23,180It's the month to be proud. It's the month to be51200:34:23,740 --> 00:34:31,020out and about and if you're coming out if you're you know, you you're thinking about the fact that you might51300:34:31,580 --> 00:34:36,620Be part of our community. This is the month to do it. This is the most like you will get51400:34:36,620 --> 00:34:41,900Overwhelmed by the amount of love that you will get when you come out in a month like this51500:34:42,620 --> 00:34:44,620It's it's it's a month to be51600:34:45,100 --> 00:34:47,100To not be ashamed of who you are51700:34:49,580 --> 00:34:53,100Because like no one should have to live in shame51800:34:53,900 --> 00:34:57,660For just being who they want to be unless you're into that51900:34:58,380 --> 00:35:04,460Yeah, I guess unless you're consenting a consenting adult with another consenting adult and you're not52000:35:04,460 --> 00:35:09,980Consenting adult with another consenting adult and you want to be shamed then enjoy the shame. Yes52100:35:11,100 --> 00:35:13,100Shame on you52200:35:13,980 --> 00:35:19,260Obey mistress bangs. Oh, I'm sorry. Sorry. Excuse me52300:35:23,340 --> 00:35:25,340Yeah, I don't52400:35:25,660 --> 00:35:27,660Who is spanking who?52500:35:27,660 --> 00:35:34,220So when two mommies love each other, they're really really much they spank each other52600:35:35,420 --> 00:35:37,420very very much52700:35:37,660 --> 00:35:39,660Really really much52800:35:39,900 --> 00:35:44,300Didn't hit right very really very much really really52900:35:46,540 --> 00:35:51,660Lots really really really really lots when they love each other really really lots53000:35:51,660 --> 00:35:57,180Lots when two daddies and a mommy love each other very very much53100:36:01,900 --> 00:36:03,900That's all you gotta leave it out53200:36:04,460 --> 00:36:06,940What you just smiled and shaked your shoulder?53300:36:07,820 --> 00:36:13,180When two pay piggies love a mommy really really much mommy has a good day53400:36:14,940 --> 00:36:19,500I love that poem apple bottom jean boots with the fur53500:36:19,500 --> 00:36:22,140What's the fur everybody looking at?53600:36:26,620 --> 00:36:29,740Oh, um, yeah, so53700:36:31,740 --> 00:36:34,700With pride obviously comes53800:36:35,980 --> 00:36:38,780A lot of people being proud of being hateful53900:36:40,300 --> 00:36:42,300And being more public about that54000:36:43,260 --> 00:36:46,860Now the question is since we are partaking in a parade54100:36:46,860 --> 00:36:52,620Are either you have either you thought about that? I know I talked to jay about it personally and54200:36:53,420 --> 00:36:57,100They actually have added security at this parade54300:36:57,740 --> 00:37:03,500Yeah, so our cool. Yeah, so our podcast actually got invited by the pride board54400:37:04,380 --> 00:37:06,620so I had a few questions54500:37:07,500 --> 00:37:09,580about like security and stuff just54600:37:11,020 --> 00:37:13,260I know the climate of things54700:37:13,260 --> 00:37:20,220And yeah, they told me that they've you know, they'll have hired security there make sure everything goes over smoothly54800:37:21,740 --> 00:37:27,260End of the day if someone wants to be kind of a dick they can yeah54900:37:28,300 --> 00:37:29,260but55000:37:29,260 --> 00:37:34,780I mean it goes back to the golden rule that I talked about a couple episodes ago, you know if you55100:37:35,660 --> 00:37:39,260Treat if you don't treat others the way that you want to be treated55200:37:39,260 --> 00:37:42,940Then i'll punch you in the face. No, no, no, you said it word for word like this55300:37:42,940 --> 00:37:45,900If you don't treat others like they want to be treated55400:37:46,940 --> 00:37:49,260Punch them in the face. Yeah, so55500:37:51,020 --> 00:37:53,020Directly into the face or like55600:37:53,740 --> 00:37:56,540Oh, you got you got are we advocating for violence? No55700:37:57,180 --> 00:38:04,060Okay. No, we don't have it once again. We do not advocate for violence here. He is just kidding and55800:38:04,620 --> 00:38:06,140We love you all55900:38:06,140 --> 00:38:10,140refer to our disclaimers56000:38:10,140 --> 00:38:12,140Anyways, i'm not super56100:38:13,100 --> 00:38:15,420Not super concerned or worried56200:38:15,980 --> 00:38:18,940We're going to kind of a smaller town56300:38:19,660 --> 00:38:22,620Pride parade. It's not like the big seattle one56400:38:25,180 --> 00:38:29,020I I know a member of the pride board. I've talked to her about it56500:38:29,820 --> 00:38:31,260so56600:38:31,260 --> 00:38:33,260Cool, I think it's fine56700:38:33,260 --> 00:38:35,900sweet, but do you think there's56800:38:36,540 --> 00:38:38,060potential for56900:38:38,060 --> 00:38:40,060people to be at risk57000:38:40,380 --> 00:38:42,380especially now with57100:38:43,340 --> 00:38:44,540So much57200:38:44,540 --> 00:38:53,260So much public hate being out there so and it and trans people being brought up in politics so much now. Yeah57300:38:54,140 --> 00:38:56,140So you do have to keep in mind57400:38:56,700 --> 00:38:59,180My day-to-day job is an engineer57500:38:59,180 --> 00:39:03,100So like one there is no such thing as zero57600:39:03,100 --> 00:39:06,700Yeah, so there's always going to be some sort of percentage57700:39:07,740 --> 00:39:13,420Of something bad happening and I think that goes back to what pride means to us57800:39:13,420 --> 00:39:16,460Like we can't like live in fear. We cannot57900:39:17,100 --> 00:39:19,660You know, oh, I don't think we should like go outside58000:39:19,660 --> 00:39:22,780I think we should bunker down inside the house because then that's not58100:39:23,340 --> 00:39:25,340Being loud and proud58200:39:25,340 --> 00:39:29,820Being who you are you're letting them win if the fear overtakes you58300:39:30,300 --> 00:39:31,500so58400:39:31,500 --> 00:39:32,780Yeah58500:39:32,780 --> 00:39:34,780Let's uh, let's go58600:39:34,780 --> 00:39:36,460Have a good time58700:39:36,460 --> 00:39:38,460and report back58800:39:38,460 --> 00:39:39,420Yeah58900:39:39,420 --> 00:39:40,620I'm excited59000:39:40,620 --> 00:39:46,380I'm definitely excited. I have been I'm always like I don't know. I've always been nervous about59100:39:46,940 --> 00:39:49,500Any kind of public event even you know59200:39:50,380 --> 00:39:53,100You know before I transitioned into the public event59300:39:53,100 --> 00:39:59,100You know before I transitioned and everything because there's just like throughout our whole entire childhood59400:39:59,100 --> 00:40:01,580there's always been like some kind of report of like59500:40:02,540 --> 00:40:04,540Shootings and stuff and it just scares me59600:40:05,340 --> 00:40:09,260And I think that just comes with being an american now, which is sad59700:40:10,220 --> 00:40:16,940it's so sad because that's where i'm at where like I I want to go to a public event and59800:40:16,940 --> 00:40:20,220I want to go and join myself but in the back of my head I have to think about that59900:40:21,260 --> 00:40:22,780I think that's60000:40:22,780 --> 00:40:28,460Just our daily lives in general. I know a couple of weeks ago. I had a co-worker who60100:40:29,820 --> 00:40:37,180She had to kind of be on call with her. She has I think about three tiny little children60200:40:38,220 --> 00:40:39,500um60300:40:39,500 --> 00:40:40,860There was a60400:40:40,860 --> 00:40:44,940A gas station shooting close to the school were one of her children60500:40:45,980 --> 00:40:49,580terrifying yeah, and she she was like I think I might have to go because60600:40:49,580 --> 00:40:55,420You know they they've kind of like yeah, they're on lockdown and she's worried they might cancel school60700:40:55,900 --> 00:40:57,900So I mean that's not even a60800:40:58,220 --> 00:41:03,580Anything to do with pride or the community or anything like that. That's a very typical day-to-day60900:41:04,140 --> 00:41:05,580American fear61000:41:05,580 --> 00:41:07,900American fear. I mean, it's61100:41:08,460 --> 00:41:11,180I don't want to say typical everyday american fear61200:41:11,180 --> 00:41:16,300But that's someone just going about their day-to-day lives and having to deal with a shooting61300:41:17,020 --> 00:41:18,220Yeah, so61400:41:18,220 --> 00:41:20,220It's just so not normal61500:41:21,340 --> 00:41:24,220Our country's full of guns. There's so many guns now. Yeah61600:41:26,220 --> 00:41:28,220Like they always yeah61700:41:28,620 --> 00:41:29,500Wow61800:41:29,500 --> 00:41:34,300All those guns all the guns. Oh, what are you gonna do with all these guns? Oh all these61900:41:36,220 --> 00:41:38,220Muscles62000:41:40,940 --> 00:41:42,620Kidding62100:41:42,620 --> 00:41:45,820Well, yeah, uh anything else we want to talk about pride related62200:41:45,820 --> 00:41:50,860I mean i'm excited about going and i'm excited about getting to make those t-shirts62300:41:50,860 --> 00:41:53,420I am really excited about that. I'm excited for all the bud light62400:41:54,140 --> 00:41:56,140Oh62500:41:56,140 --> 00:42:03,180Wait, I don't drink bud light actually like I either I I I love the fact that um company major companies are like62600:42:03,740 --> 00:42:07,740in uh public support of the our community, but like62700:42:08,620 --> 00:42:11,820At the same time bud light tastes like freaking water62800:42:13,020 --> 00:42:13,740Yes62900:42:13,740 --> 00:42:14,940I agree63000:42:14,940 --> 00:42:19,260I agree. I always hated bud light. However63100:42:20,060 --> 00:42:22,460Now with your recent marketing campaign63200:42:23,180 --> 00:42:26,140I will personally buy more bud light. It is working63300:42:26,780 --> 00:42:33,500I did notice ever since they did invest in the community and start like supporting us63400:42:34,060 --> 00:42:38,300The taste did start tasting better. It tastes really good. I think their cells are up63500:42:39,100 --> 00:42:43,980Yeah, they they improve the taste they made it sweeter or is it sweeter because63600:42:43,980 --> 00:42:45,980Is they support us now?63700:42:46,540 --> 00:42:47,500and63800:42:47,500 --> 00:42:49,500So many people hate bud light63900:42:49,660 --> 00:42:51,660And that's what makes it so sweet64000:42:54,700 --> 00:42:58,860Oh, it's people are sipping in like i love the fact that you hate me64100:43:00,380 --> 00:43:03,900So sweet, but their sales are up64200:43:04,620 --> 00:43:06,300because now64300:43:06,300 --> 00:43:10,860You're getting more people buying them both because of their recent64400:43:10,860 --> 00:43:15,680Support and then also because kid rock is buying them just to shoot them64500:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,480See even bud light64600:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,280Has to worry about being shot64700:43:23,280 --> 00:43:24,720Yeah64800:43:24,720 --> 00:43:27,600Like the cans not where I was going with that, but yeah64900:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,840Yeah65000:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,200See, it's not it's not safe to be bud light can anymore65100:43:34,800 --> 00:43:39,440I remember back in my day when it just wasn't safe to be a watermelon65200:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,480watermelon65300:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,920watermelon65400:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,920I remember back in my day when65500:43:45,120 --> 00:43:49,680People didn't just take their beer out back and shoot it. They poured one out for their homies65600:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,880still do65700:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,360I'm just saying65800:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,360ever since bud light65900:43:57,680 --> 00:44:04,080Came out as gay. They have been taking they have been tasting great. I tried one the other day66000:44:05,260 --> 00:44:07,360phenomenal like66100:44:07,360 --> 00:44:13,360Like, you know rain, you know how skittles taste a rainbow when I was drinking that fucking bud light66200:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,760I was tasting the rainbow66300:44:16,320 --> 00:44:17,760Sorry skittles66400:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,760Well, I might have to steal that from you66500:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,560Taste the rainbow. Yeah, really seriously66600:44:23,200 --> 00:44:24,480I just66700:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,480taste the rainbow66800:44:26,720 --> 00:44:28,240I just think66900:44:28,240 --> 00:44:32,800You're drinking different bud light than I am. Well, you then you're not drinking the gay bud light67000:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,280Taste the rainbow67100:44:35,280 --> 00:44:41,360That wraps up our conversation today. We talked about a few things. I'm glad you stayed tuned up until this point67200:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,020Please follow us on our social medias twitter instagram67300:44:46,560 --> 00:44:51,120We have discord if you want to follow us on discord join our community. 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