Episode 6: ITS PRIDE MONTH BABY!!

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,240 This claimer this podcast features explicit language and discussions sexual nature 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:09,700 It may contain subjects uncomfortable to some please understand that the opinions shared on this podcast are not a representation 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,300 Of any organization or employer the host may be a part of 4 00:00:23,600 --> 00:00:25,600 Welcome back everybody. Um 5 00:00:26,160 --> 00:00:28,160 We're unnatural to some 6 00:00:28,160 --> 00:00:34,720 I think right uts on the address. Um, yeah, I don't like that acronym. Why not sounds too much like uti 7 00:00:35,040 --> 00:00:37,280 Well, it sounds too much like bts 8 00:00:38,640 --> 00:00:41,280 The k-pop group behind the scenes 9 00:00:43,600 --> 00:00:45,600 Back to school 10 00:00:45,920 --> 00:00:47,920 What does bts stand for? 11 00:00:49,440 --> 00:00:55,360 No, for real. No, I actually don't know what does bts stand for why do you look at me because it's a k-pop group 12 00:00:55,360 --> 00:01:03,060 I don't even know who bt. I do know who bts but I have no idea what it stands for big tiny sweeties 13 00:01:09,360 --> 00:01:17,280 Bacon tomato and scallions bacon tomato sandwich bacon tomato sandwich. That's what it stands for bacon tomato sandwich 14 00:01:18,380 --> 00:01:20,000 bts 15 00:01:20,000 --> 00:01:27,780 Stands for bring the steak bring bring the shiitake mushrooms 16 00:01:28,640 --> 00:01:30,720 Uh, so it sounds for bang tang 17 00:01:32,000 --> 00:01:35,200 Oh, i'm not gonna print i'm not gonna try that one but um 18 00:01:36,400 --> 00:01:38,400 bang tang boys 19 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:43,200 And it's evidently translated to mean bulletproof boy scouts 20 00:01:44,080 --> 00:01:46,080 You know bts is a good 21 00:01:46,080 --> 00:01:52,960 Yeah, yeah, it's good that they went with bts and not well there they are a k-pop group from korea as I yeah 22 00:01:53,360 --> 00:01:58,400 Got really popular in america. I'm just saying like if their name was bulletproof boy scouts 23 00:01:59,840 --> 00:02:02,580 It would probably not go as well as bts 24 00:02:03,920 --> 00:02:06,640 bts with a t t as in 25 00:02:07,680 --> 00:02:09,680 tom 26 00:02:09,920 --> 00:02:13,780 T as in bring the steak exactly 27 00:02:13,780 --> 00:02:14,820 Well 28 00:02:14,820 --> 00:02:20,980 That's not anyways, that's yeah, we didn't gather around like we didn't turn on all the cameras and gather around these mics to talk about 29 00:02:21,860 --> 00:02:28,500 uh k-pop groups now, did we welcome back to the unnatural some podcast today we're I think we're gonna talk about some 30 00:02:28,820 --> 00:02:36,260 Things dealing with pride. It's pride month. It's time to talk about pride happy talk about trans pride 31 00:02:37,620 --> 00:02:42,040 kink pride bd sm pride pride and polyamory 32 00:02:42,040 --> 00:02:49,320 pride and just being you and I think we should I think we should give our own personal, you know feedback on that because 33 00:02:49,960 --> 00:02:53,000 pride means something different for everyone 34 00:02:53,720 --> 00:02:59,960 And anytime I have been to an event pride event anytime that I've talked to someone about pride. It's always 35 00:03:00,600 --> 00:03:09,560 About how what it means to them and it's very important to me to always talk to people about that because pride means different things to everyone 36 00:03:09,560 --> 00:03:14,680 And that's what we're here today today to discuss and maybe we might have some fun later 37 00:03:15,400 --> 00:03:17,400 uh with some tie-dye 38 00:03:18,040 --> 00:03:20,040 We're tie-dying shirts, right? 39 00:03:20,040 --> 00:03:24,280 Yeah, something like this. Oh, you already did one. This is not what our shirts are gonna look like 40 00:03:24,280 --> 00:03:29,880 It's going to say unnatural some on them. Hopefully fall goes well. We may have some extras for 41 00:03:30,840 --> 00:03:35,000 Uh, those of you that support us and you know those of you that are watching 42 00:03:35,000 --> 00:03:36,040 But 43 00:03:36,040 --> 00:03:39,720 Right. Maybe um, if we do have some extra t-shirts 44 00:03:39,720 --> 00:03:44,360 Maybe we'll just drop into our discord and just toss them out to a few active members 45 00:03:44,360 --> 00:03:50,200 So if you want to become a member of our discord and interact and mingle with us, maybe get some 46 00:03:50,840 --> 00:03:54,760 Occasional free stuff can't promise anything then click on the link below 47 00:03:55,960 --> 00:03:57,960 Where? 48 00:03:57,960 --> 00:03:59,960 Right there right here 49 00:03:59,960 --> 00:04:01,960 Right there 50 00:04:01,960 --> 00:04:07,720 Right there right here right there the link. Oh down here click the link 51 00:04:08,280 --> 00:04:11,560 The below link it's the it's the bell icon 52 00:04:12,600 --> 00:04:17,740 Oh that link. Yes, and I think the bell icon makes them get notifications 53 00:04:18,440 --> 00:04:23,160 Which you should click by the way always always click that bell icon 54 00:04:23,240 --> 00:04:24,920 You always want to get the reminders 55 00:04:24,920 --> 00:04:30,120 We always want to be updated on when we get these new videos up because i've been working my butt off 56 00:04:30,120 --> 00:04:32,120 on editing these things so 57 00:04:33,000 --> 00:04:37,320 Yeah, you have and the autopod has been a blessing. Thank you. Once again atio 58 00:04:38,360 --> 00:04:40,360 Is it at or atio? 59 00:04:40,360 --> 00:04:41,400 Atio? 60 00:04:41,400 --> 00:04:43,400 Tomato tomato 61 00:04:43,400 --> 00:04:45,400 Tomato tomato 62 00:04:45,400 --> 00:04:47,400 Atio 63 00:04:47,400 --> 00:04:52,600 Thank you, and thank you to all of our patreon supporters. We greatly appreciate you. Yes 64 00:04:53,400 --> 00:04:55,400 Thank you also 65 00:04:55,400 --> 00:04:57,400 Thank you for our kofi 66 00:04:57,400 --> 00:04:59,400 supporters so 67 00:04:59,400 --> 00:05:01,400 So cringe lord, thank you again 68 00:05:01,880 --> 00:05:03,880 Yes. Yeah, thanks for all that coffee 69 00:05:04,120 --> 00:05:06,840 Coffee that's gonna that's definitely gonna go 70 00:05:08,440 --> 00:05:10,440 That's gonna be used. Yeah 71 00:05:10,840 --> 00:05:18,840 We're avid coffee drinkers. Yeah, even though it's not like like we said, it's just somewhere you can support people but like our creators 72 00:05:19,640 --> 00:05:24,600 It's not specifically for coffee, but I love how it sounds it just sounds like it's for coffee 73 00:05:25,000 --> 00:05:27,080 Come to kofi buy us a cup of coffee 74 00:05:27,080 --> 00:05:32,600 Yeah, I think when they donate it says like, you know buy a natural to some a cup of coffee 75 00:05:33,000 --> 00:05:35,320 Does it make the like like does it make the like the little? 76 00:05:36,200 --> 00:05:38,520 noise when you pay like the like the 77 00:05:39,160 --> 00:05:43,080 And that was a really bad impression of a cup being filled up with coffee. I know 78 00:05:48,120 --> 00:05:51,720 Oh my goodness, I think we drink different coffee. Yeah 79 00:05:54,020 --> 00:05:56,020 Possibly 80 00:05:56,020 --> 00:06:00,180 Oh gosh, what are we talking about today? We're talking about kofi. Okay 81 00:06:00,980 --> 00:06:03,220 No, oh we're here for pride 82 00:06:03,940 --> 00:06:05,940 Yeah, we're gonna talk about pride 83 00:06:06,020 --> 00:06:07,700 What it means to us? 84 00:06:07,700 --> 00:06:09,220 and 85 00:06:09,220 --> 00:06:11,220 How it makes us feel? 86 00:06:11,540 --> 00:06:15,140 And yeah, just how are you feeling because it's it's pride month. So like 87 00:06:15,780 --> 00:06:19,540 How do you feel about that? Let's I mean have you been to pride jay? 88 00:06:20,340 --> 00:06:25,300 That's a good question. Have you ever been to pride? So this will be my first pride parade 89 00:06:25,300 --> 00:06:26,900 Oh, that's exciting 90 00:06:26,900 --> 00:06:28,900 Um very I hope so 91 00:06:29,540 --> 00:06:31,540 Yeah, so typically, uh, 92 00:06:32,100 --> 00:06:37,240 As you as you know, i'm typically a pretty big ally for the community 93 00:06:38,180 --> 00:06:41,000 Uh for the lgbtqia plus community 94 00:06:41,620 --> 00:06:42,820 however 95 00:06:42,820 --> 00:06:48,260 the past few years typically in pride like during pride month, I try to 96 00:06:49,380 --> 00:06:51,380 Turn internet off and kind of not 97 00:06:51,380 --> 00:06:54,580 Read things because so first of all one 98 00:06:55,220 --> 00:07:00,820 I do see a lot of like anti lgbtqia stuff. I just don't want to read and then second 99 00:07:01,300 --> 00:07:03,300 it seems like every year there is a 100 00:07:03,940 --> 00:07:05,940 huge debate between 101 00:07:06,260 --> 00:07:07,460 the kink 102 00:07:07,460 --> 00:07:13,540 slash bdsm community and also the lgbtqia plus community on if 103 00:07:14,260 --> 00:07:18,500 kink and bdsm should be welcome at the pride parade so 104 00:07:18,500 --> 00:07:23,460 And it gets kind of heated between the two groups and I just I try to like turn it off. So 105 00:07:26,100 --> 00:07:30,740 That's understandable I I know some people are kind of divided over that topic 106 00:07:31,620 --> 00:07:35,700 I I totally understand social media is kind of hard to consume around pride 107 00:07:36,260 --> 00:07:39,940 It I love the fact that there's a lot of you know public 108 00:07:40,900 --> 00:07:46,740 You know be proud of who you are. I'm in support of uh the lgbtqia plus community 109 00:07:46,740 --> 00:07:48,740 there's there's companies like 110 00:07:49,140 --> 00:07:50,420 Bud light 111 00:07:50,420 --> 00:07:56,820 That are very very open about it and just and just promoting us and putting us out there more which is 112 00:07:57,360 --> 00:07:59,360 Fantastic in my opinion 113 00:07:59,380 --> 00:08:04,420 But also there's the other side of it, which you're just talking about and that's that's kind of 114 00:08:05,300 --> 00:08:10,020 It makes sense to do something like that because it's hard. I mean corporations 115 00:08:11,460 --> 00:08:13,940 Highlighting lgbtq people 116 00:08:13,940 --> 00:08:18,020 The month leading up to pride is that really support or is that? 117 00:08:18,820 --> 00:08:20,820 sales 118 00:08:21,620 --> 00:08:23,620 It is sales 119 00:08:23,700 --> 00:08:25,700 It is however 120 00:08:26,260 --> 00:08:28,660 So i've seen this debate online 121 00:08:29,220 --> 00:08:33,300 You know people are like, oh, they're only supporting us because they know they can make money off of us now 122 00:08:33,620 --> 00:08:38,740 Well, yeah, because we want all of those fancy rainbow things for our rainbow party. We want it to be all you know 123 00:08:40,020 --> 00:08:42,020 Pretty everything that we want to do 124 00:08:42,020 --> 00:08:44,020 pretty everything to 125 00:08:44,900 --> 00:08:46,900 Go together. Yeah 126 00:08:47,460 --> 00:08:53,780 But on the contrary of that, I would argue having companies realize that they can market 127 00:08:55,460 --> 00:08:56,980 Pride 128 00:08:56,980 --> 00:09:00,900 Is actually a really good thing because now when when you go to stores 129 00:09:01,460 --> 00:09:08,980 You know, they'll often have like a rainbow section. So it's kind of like in people's faces more it's becoming more normalized. I mean 130 00:09:08,980 --> 00:09:11,400 everything every market 131 00:09:12,040 --> 00:09:14,360 right every quote acceptable 132 00:09:15,160 --> 00:09:17,160 market 133 00:09:17,160 --> 00:09:19,160 Is something that 134 00:09:19,240 --> 00:09:23,080 You know sells agencies try to make money off of 135 00:09:23,640 --> 00:09:29,240 So I I see it as like a good thing like you're you're reaching that level. You're becoming more normalized 136 00:09:29,640 --> 00:09:31,880 Yeah, because like I would like to see it 137 00:09:32,760 --> 00:09:35,160 Outside of pride months too every now and then though 138 00:09:35,960 --> 00:09:37,960 You know, yeah 139 00:09:37,960 --> 00:09:45,000 I baby steps. That's all that that's all my point was baby steps, you know, like getting I I feel like it's good 140 00:09:45,480 --> 00:09:47,480 Because we're getting commercials 141 00:09:47,480 --> 00:09:49,480 We're have we're seeing 142 00:09:49,640 --> 00:09:55,480 gay and trans content creators be in public commercials on public brands like 143 00:09:56,120 --> 00:10:00,520 like bud light like I was mentioning mentioning and it's it's a really good thing because 144 00:10:01,240 --> 00:10:05,080 You see trans people and gay people more in a public eye 145 00:10:05,080 --> 00:10:09,080 But also it's a scary thing because the more public you are about things 146 00:10:09,640 --> 00:10:13,800 the more hateful or the more public people are about being hateful and 147 00:10:14,680 --> 00:10:19,160 It's it's it comes with you know, it's positive and negatives for sure 148 00:10:20,120 --> 00:10:22,680 So and no one's wrong on that fight 149 00:10:23,160 --> 00:10:27,320 Like on either side as far as like it being helpful or being unhelpful 150 00:10:28,040 --> 00:10:31,080 I just hope there's other beers to choose from besides bud light 151 00:10:31,080 --> 00:10:35,240 I heard like course light and stuff was getting on that band. Okay, cool. There's there's a lot of 152 00:10:35,880 --> 00:10:39,000 Yeah, I believe a lot of beer companies are jumping on so 153 00:10:40,040 --> 00:10:43,320 Yeah, yeah, I don't want to only drink bud light, you know 154 00:10:43,960 --> 00:10:45,960 Yeah, exactly. Yeah 155 00:10:47,880 --> 00:10:53,240 Yeah, so in general I've not typically I'm more like a behind-the-scenes kind of guy just 156 00:10:53,240 --> 00:10:59,480 Mm-hmm. I like I've been on a couple of different boards do work leading up to pride 157 00:11:00,280 --> 00:11:02,280 Mm-hmm, that's about it. I will say 158 00:11:03,080 --> 00:11:05,800 one of the major pushes this year is 159 00:11:06,520 --> 00:11:09,240 Living now in Seattle and then also 160 00:11:09,880 --> 00:11:12,200 The pride board that I'm a part of now 161 00:11:12,200 --> 00:11:16,440 I feel like is very accepting and understanding of kink and bdsm 162 00:11:17,080 --> 00:11:21,560 And I know they're doing a lot of work to kind of bring more light to the world 163 00:11:21,560 --> 00:11:26,220 To kind of bring more light to kink bdsm and polyamory 164 00:11:26,680 --> 00:11:28,680 So that to me is more 165 00:11:29,080 --> 00:11:31,080 I feel like inclusive 166 00:11:31,080 --> 00:11:33,080 So i'm like, okay like cool 167 00:11:33,640 --> 00:11:35,640 Maybe it's different out here 168 00:11:36,040 --> 00:11:38,920 Yeah, I mean at least like recognition in general is just 169 00:11:39,880 --> 00:11:41,880 Cool you exist 170 00:11:42,040 --> 00:11:42,920 Yay 171 00:11:42,920 --> 00:11:44,920 Thank you. Thank you for noticing 172 00:11:45,480 --> 00:11:46,920 cool 173 00:11:46,920 --> 00:11:52,040 so you've never been to one how's it making you feel about going to this one aside from like 174 00:11:52,920 --> 00:11:56,920 Feeling like sometimes bdsm and kink could be left out of 175 00:11:58,600 --> 00:12:03,480 The pride event because you you're an ally but also you want to be a part 176 00:12:03,960 --> 00:12:09,080 Of it as not just an ally but someone that is proud to be who they are 177 00:12:10,760 --> 00:12:11,960 So 178 00:12:11,960 --> 00:12:15,160 Yes, I to pride in me is all about 179 00:12:15,160 --> 00:12:17,160 being yourself 180 00:12:17,400 --> 00:12:19,720 And that's that's something that i've kind of 181 00:12:20,440 --> 00:12:21,720 with other 182 00:12:21,720 --> 00:12:24,520 My other experiences with like pride boards, you know 183 00:12:24,520 --> 00:12:29,160 They say like love is love and then when they find out that there's this like kink and bdsm side 184 00:12:29,160 --> 00:12:32,200 They're like, okay love is love except for that kind of love 185 00:12:32,200 --> 00:12:35,480 Like that doesn't have room here that really bothers me 186 00:12:35,480 --> 00:12:40,360 So to me like pride is all about being yourself love is love 187 00:12:40,360 --> 00:12:48,600 Love is love the the argument that kink and bdsm doesn't belong in pride is people automatically kind of jump to the 188 00:12:49,320 --> 00:12:56,280 Oh, like we're gonna see people being led around like dogs and people are gonna be naked and having sex and being 189 00:12:56,600 --> 00:13:00,760 Whipped in the streets and like, you know, my children didn't consent to that at all 190 00:13:02,600 --> 00:13:06,440 That's like that is one area that I do struggle with because it's like 191 00:13:06,440 --> 00:13:11,880 Like the biggest thing about bdsm is consent. So how can you take that? 192 00:13:13,460 --> 00:13:15,240 Extreme 193 00:13:15,240 --> 00:13:17,880 Side of bdsm and put it put it into the streets 194 00:13:18,600 --> 00:13:20,440 however 195 00:13:20,440 --> 00:13:22,440 The stuff that i've seen I you know 196 00:13:22,680 --> 00:13:28,840 I I feel like there's people on both sides that will always take it to the extreme just like for instance in seattle every year 197 00:13:28,920 --> 00:13:29,800 there's the 198 00:13:29,800 --> 00:13:31,800 forgot what it's called but 199 00:13:31,800 --> 00:13:36,360 Um, they're they do the the naked bike 200 00:13:37,480 --> 00:13:42,920 Oh, I know what you're talking. I can't remember what it's called. But yeah, they have a naked bike by grace naked mile or something 201 00:13:43,720 --> 00:13:47,800 Something that's a movie. Oh, yeah, that's right. Okay, my bad 202 00:13:48,360 --> 00:13:49,400 But i'm just kind of like okay 203 00:13:49,400 --> 00:13:54,040 So if a child came across that, you know, they obviously didn't consent to that 204 00:13:54,120 --> 00:13:58,600 You know, like is that like is that walled off somehow with like 15 foot walls? 205 00:13:58,600 --> 00:14:01,800 Well, I mean it goes back to what you were saying every group 206 00:14:02,440 --> 00:14:05,800 has an unreasonable person in it, yeah, so 207 00:14:07,960 --> 00:14:10,200 You know, yeah that doesn't represent 208 00:14:11,160 --> 00:14:14,600 Our community. Yeah, you know and for me 209 00:14:15,560 --> 00:14:19,400 You know if I was going to represent the bdsm community at a pride parade 210 00:14:19,800 --> 00:14:21,640 I'm not going to be like wearing, you know 211 00:14:21,640 --> 00:14:26,280 I'm not going to be on my all fours naked as a dog and you know stuff like that 212 00:14:26,280 --> 00:14:30,840 I think a lot of people go to pride and they they want to go there and like this is my identity 213 00:14:31,160 --> 00:14:33,160 And that's like and I get that 214 00:14:34,120 --> 00:14:35,080 but 215 00:14:35,080 --> 00:14:38,680 You know, maybe not be naked at a public event. You know, that's really 216 00:14:39,240 --> 00:14:40,360 Yeah 217 00:14:40,360 --> 00:14:42,360 You know the big thing there 218 00:14:42,360 --> 00:14:47,480 Even when because it's and that's weird because that pride i've seen so much nudity 219 00:14:48,520 --> 00:14:51,880 like seriously, especially with the bigger city prides like 220 00:14:51,880 --> 00:14:55,880 It's almost expected that you're going to see some kind of like 221 00:14:56,840 --> 00:14:58,040 nakedness 222 00:14:58,040 --> 00:15:04,280 Now I mean and that doesn't bother me, but I understand I understand where becomes a problem 223 00:15:04,520 --> 00:15:06,040 And I I just think 224 00:15:06,360 --> 00:15:08,600 I just think like in pride in general like 225 00:15:09,080 --> 00:15:13,080 We're just they're all celebrating to be proud. So if someone wants to 226 00:15:13,800 --> 00:15:15,800 wear a collar and 227 00:15:16,040 --> 00:15:17,480 whip their partner 228 00:15:18,040 --> 00:15:20,760 Well, that is an adult space that we're at 229 00:15:20,760 --> 00:15:24,440 Yeah, as long as there's consent being had then there shouldn't be an issue 230 00:15:24,440 --> 00:15:30,680 They're just celebrating who they are in a public space where we're supposed to be comfortable and proud of ourselves 231 00:15:31,320 --> 00:15:36,760 And if we can't include other people in that then we're being the opposite of what our cause is about 232 00:15:37,080 --> 00:15:40,280 And that's why i'm just like I get confused when 233 00:15:40,840 --> 00:15:45,160 When when you're like when you bring up those like how people can be 234 00:15:45,960 --> 00:15:47,160 exclusive 235 00:15:47,160 --> 00:15:51,000 Towards the bdsm and king community because i'm like that's not what 236 00:15:51,560 --> 00:15:54,520 right, that's not what our movement's about it's about 237 00:15:55,240 --> 00:15:57,560 Being included in society 238 00:15:58,040 --> 00:16:01,640 the smaller diverse groups being included 239 00:16:03,400 --> 00:16:05,400 So you're gonna spank me at pride 240 00:16:06,200 --> 00:16:08,200 Is that what you said? 241 00:16:08,760 --> 00:16:10,760 Uh, maybe 242 00:16:10,760 --> 00:16:12,760 Okay 243 00:16:13,560 --> 00:16:14,600 Don't ban us 244 00:16:14,600 --> 00:16:18,120 My first pride was last year jay, so oh cool. Yeah 245 00:16:18,760 --> 00:16:21,580 I I went to pride up in vancouver 246 00:16:23,800 --> 00:16:25,320 With uh 247 00:16:25,320 --> 00:16:27,320 sephira and 248 00:16:27,720 --> 00:16:29,320 Her partner 249 00:16:29,320 --> 00:16:31,320 And that was a fun experience 250 00:16:31,880 --> 00:16:34,280 I went dressed up as a slutty 251 00:16:35,080 --> 00:16:40,440 police officer and I had my paddle with me and I was offering out free spankings 252 00:16:40,440 --> 00:16:43,240 Nice that was a real thing 253 00:16:43,720 --> 00:16:50,440 Did you get any so you were actually doing some kind of displaying some kind of kink and 254 00:16:51,000 --> 00:16:52,600 bdsm in a way 255 00:16:52,600 --> 00:16:56,440 Did you get any like negative looks or anything? Oh, no everyone like 256 00:16:57,080 --> 00:17:01,880 Everyone was like super happy. Oh, yeah. Yeah, it was fun. A lot of people were laughing and like 257 00:17:02,680 --> 00:17:05,800 offering out their fannies for for looks 258 00:17:05,800 --> 00:17:10,360 And there were a few female police officers that were there that were like 259 00:17:11,000 --> 00:17:17,960 Hey, what's up? No, that's that's that's wholesome. Yeah, they're like, oh you you work for my department 260 00:17:17,960 --> 00:17:20,760 Don't you oh the special department of spankings? 261 00:17:21,480 --> 00:17:25,640 Yeah, so it's it's funny that you mentioned that because that's literally what I did last year 262 00:17:26,520 --> 00:17:28,520 Nice. Yeah. Yeah 263 00:17:28,760 --> 00:17:30,200 I've never been to a 264 00:17:30,200 --> 00:17:32,200 Quite as fun of an event as you have 265 00:17:32,200 --> 00:17:39,560 I remember you telling me about it and it's on like, oh you went in vancouver. So it wasn't on the beach vancouver bc. Yeah 266 00:17:40,760 --> 00:17:43,080 It actually it wasn't it was 267 00:17:43,800 --> 00:17:50,680 So the parade I can't remember what the name of the street was but it actually went by the water. Oh, that's nice 268 00:17:50,680 --> 00:17:54,360 Yeah, so it was super cool. We kind of really nice we uh 269 00:17:54,920 --> 00:17:57,720 Followed along down the road and then we went and hung out 270 00:17:57,720 --> 00:18:02,440 You know by the water for a little bit then went down to the beach. That's not bad at all. Yeah 271 00:18:03,720 --> 00:18:08,200 Have you so you never been to like I haven't been to pride here yet though 272 00:18:08,760 --> 00:18:14,600 You should know that we live together. I know but like before I met you. I didn't know if you've been no 273 00:18:14,600 --> 00:18:17,400 Yeah. Yeah. Yeah never went to pride in florida 274 00:18:18,200 --> 00:18:21,640 So still technically I haven't been to pride in america yet 275 00:18:21,640 --> 00:18:27,000 Oh, this is going to be our first pride event in america in america. Yeah 276 00:18:27,320 --> 00:18:28,200 cool 277 00:18:28,200 --> 00:18:31,800 That's that's actually really cool. My first american pride 278 00:18:32,680 --> 00:18:37,800 What was your favorite part about the pride that you went to in vancouver? 279 00:18:38,600 --> 00:18:40,120 Oh, um 280 00:18:40,120 --> 00:18:42,120 Spanking people. Yeah 281 00:18:42,680 --> 00:18:46,120 I was gonna say spanking people. Well, funny thing you mentioned 282 00:18:46,120 --> 00:18:52,520 No, we my favorite part was that we got an actual like location 283 00:18:53,320 --> 00:18:57,000 That had bar access that was like on the street 284 00:18:57,160 --> 00:19:03,000 So and it was like fenced in so it kind of felt like we had our like own little private venue. Oh, that's cool 285 00:19:03,800 --> 00:19:09,240 And we were just having our pictures of drinks and we had our flags and 286 00:19:09,800 --> 00:19:12,120 And I care about the people that we were with 287 00:19:12,120 --> 00:19:17,960 We had our pictures of drinks and we had our flags and and I can't remember. I think there were beads being thrown 288 00:19:17,960 --> 00:19:19,400 Yeah, I got beads 289 00:19:19,400 --> 00:19:21,720 Did they require the flashing of tits? No. Oh 290 00:19:22,360 --> 00:19:24,040 three means 291 00:19:24,040 --> 00:19:30,760 I think that might be like a florida thing. Oh, no, I think that's no way. I thought that's not you're talking about gasparilla 292 00:19:31,640 --> 00:19:33,480 I was thinking about spring break 293 00:19:33,480 --> 00:19:35,720 but every year gasparilla, that's where all the 294 00:19:36,760 --> 00:19:41,560 The beads no the bead parade gasparilla in tampa. No, i'm talking 295 00:19:41,560 --> 00:19:47,320 I'm thinking about nolens and and i've already grown. Did you just say nolens? Yeah, that's how they say it down there 296 00:19:47,320 --> 00:19:51,320 Okay, you've never been i'm talking to wait. Wait, hold on. I have 297 00:19:51,960 --> 00:19:55,000 I have been to new orleans. You have yes, how many times? 298 00:19:55,400 --> 00:19:59,400 Like wait, what did you say three or four times? I thought you said was nolens 299 00:19:59,960 --> 00:20:01,960 You told me not to call it that 300 00:20:02,120 --> 00:20:04,120 You're so obedient 301 00:20:04,520 --> 00:20:06,520 Oh god 302 00:20:07,000 --> 00:20:10,780 Oh geez well, so my experience is gasparilla 303 00:20:10,780 --> 00:20:12,780 in 304 00:20:12,780 --> 00:20:14,300 eboard 305 00:20:14,300 --> 00:20:15,500 oh 306 00:20:15,500 --> 00:20:19,740 So it's kind of like a mini marty graw down there. Yeah. Oh, that's cool 307 00:20:19,900 --> 00:20:23,100 I mean, that's my only experience with like marty graw-esque 308 00:20:23,820 --> 00:20:26,300 You know experience. It's just it's more pirates 309 00:20:26,860 --> 00:20:29,180 Is there any nudity at the vancouver one? 310 00:20:30,380 --> 00:20:32,060 In vancouver? 311 00:20:32,060 --> 00:20:37,740 Uh, I saw men straight up wearing like you've ever wrapped a present 312 00:20:37,740 --> 00:20:39,740 You know just the bow 313 00:20:40,380 --> 00:20:44,060 Oh, wow, imagine that just just a bit on a man 314 00:20:44,700 --> 00:20:47,020 That's what i'm wearing in a specific spot 315 00:20:47,820 --> 00:20:50,380 Just the bow just the bow. Yeah 316 00:20:51,020 --> 00:20:53,580 Interesting, so it did cover up 317 00:20:54,220 --> 00:20:55,420 surprisingly 318 00:20:55,420 --> 00:20:56,860 Oh, yeah 319 00:20:56,860 --> 00:21:03,580 I'm thinking it's a large bow, but it did not leave a lot to the imagination. You're like, okay 320 00:21:03,580 --> 00:21:07,260 That's what's going on. We know what's what's behind the bow 321 00:21:09,820 --> 00:21:15,180 Did so you said you got your own like private little shindig did the parade go by yeah 322 00:21:15,740 --> 00:21:20,460 Well, that's what we it was literally right by the road that the parade was going down 323 00:21:21,500 --> 00:21:22,620 and 324 00:21:22,620 --> 00:21:25,580 It was like a pub. I think with 325 00:21:27,020 --> 00:21:30,620 An opening that came out with like a little gated area 326 00:21:30,620 --> 00:21:34,300 And it was looking out over the street. So 327 00:21:35,340 --> 00:21:37,660 Yeah, I didn't I might be over explaining that 328 00:21:38,700 --> 00:21:45,420 With her that's why i'm asking you. Yeah, she didn't go to pride with me last year. No, I was I don't think I was feeling good 329 00:21:47,100 --> 00:21:52,220 Around June, I think I last year in the summer. I was having a lot of stomach issues 330 00:21:52,540 --> 00:21:54,540 So this will be our first pride together 331 00:21:54,780 --> 00:21:58,380 Yeah, she was planning on coming with us last year, but she just cancelled 332 00:21:58,380 --> 00:22:00,380 Last minute. So what are you guys wearing this year? 333 00:22:01,980 --> 00:22:05,660 I believe we're wearing those tie-dye shirts. We're gonna make 334 00:22:06,460 --> 00:22:09,660 Allegedly allegedly. Okay. Okay. So 335 00:22:10,300 --> 00:22:16,140 After we we do this episode, we are making shirts and if it goes well, like I was saying earlier 336 00:22:16,460 --> 00:22:22,380 Hopefully there will be why are you shaking your head? No, it'll go well. I'm sure hopefully there will be footage of 337 00:22:23,180 --> 00:22:26,140 The shirts being made and then look they're magic 338 00:22:26,140 --> 00:22:31,180 Again. Yes. Yes, and hopefully it'll look great. It'll look great like this one 339 00:22:33,100 --> 00:22:36,300 Yeah, yeah, yeah we can wear them on our next episode maybe 340 00:22:37,020 --> 00:22:37,900 Yeah 341 00:22:37,900 --> 00:22:42,140 Yeah, it'll still like if they don't look like it'll still be pride month. Yeah 342 00:22:43,100 --> 00:22:47,180 It's a month of pride baby. Yeah. Yeah, it's a month of pride 343 00:22:48,620 --> 00:22:50,620 Speaking of which you have not 344 00:22:51,260 --> 00:22:53,260 So you have not been to the parade 345 00:22:53,260 --> 00:22:59,100 You have not been to you have a pride event. It doesn't have to be a parade necessarily pride event. Oh 346 00:22:59,580 --> 00:23:01,580 in in in june 347 00:23:02,140 --> 00:23:06,780 Oh, it's specifically in june. Yeah during pride month because that's usually when it's the biggest 348 00:23:07,820 --> 00:23:08,300 Um 349 00:23:08,300 --> 00:23:11,260 Parade's not necessarily a parade just like an event 350 00:23:12,380 --> 00:23:19,500 No, no, I think I have I think I think typically like the pride events. I've gone to have not been in june 351 00:23:19,500 --> 00:23:22,380 The pride events i've gone to you have not been in june 352 00:23:23,180 --> 00:23:25,180 Has anybody ever noticed how much? 353 00:23:26,220 --> 00:23:28,220 Jay says typically 354 00:23:29,260 --> 00:23:34,060 Well, I typically don't know I typically think jay typically says it between 355 00:23:34,780 --> 00:23:37,740 I find it more interesting something that is interesting 356 00:23:39,900 --> 00:23:44,060 Typically the interesting things that I find are typically typical 357 00:23:44,060 --> 00:23:48,460 Uh topical topical. Yes. Topical. Yeah 358 00:23:51,020 --> 00:23:52,460 What were we talking about 359 00:23:52,460 --> 00:23:56,940 Well, I think we're talking about what we're gonna wear. Yeah, so tie-dye shirts 360 00:23:57,660 --> 00:23:59,660 Probably some booty shorts 361 00:23:59,900 --> 00:24:01,020 Yeah 362 00:24:01,020 --> 00:24:06,540 If you don't have booty shorts yet jay you can get some you have time. I I have some yeah 363 00:24:07,020 --> 00:24:09,020 Yeah, I have some of the um 364 00:24:09,420 --> 00:24:11,420 like the daisy dukes 365 00:24:11,420 --> 00:24:15,340 Hmm. Yeah dukes of the daisy. So the dress code is 366 00:24:16,140 --> 00:24:20,300 Tie-dye a natural some shirts if it goes well, otherwise, it's just gonna 367 00:24:20,940 --> 00:24:25,100 Say a natural some and look really bad. Is that the shirt you're wearing? No 368 00:24:25,580 --> 00:24:28,560 Um and booty shorts. So are you gonna get some booty shorts? 369 00:24:36,780 --> 00:24:38,940 Okay, um 370 00:24:38,940 --> 00:24:44,700 You know, i'm not really sure audience. What do you think just kidding? We don't have time to survey you. Um 371 00:24:45,580 --> 00:24:47,580 man 372 00:24:48,220 --> 00:24:53,900 I think if I was like in my physical prime, I wouldn't have issue wearing booty shorts, but 373 00:24:54,780 --> 00:24:56,780 Jay's getting some weight 374 00:24:56,860 --> 00:25:04,300 Getting some weight. No one wants to see like oh, come on. I find cargo pants. Yeah, I guess you can wear cargo pants 375 00:25:04,380 --> 00:25:06,860 Oh, no, i'll talk to the to the wifey 376 00:25:06,860 --> 00:25:08,860 To see what she thinks about 377 00:25:09,340 --> 00:25:14,780 Daisy dukes. No, you get some like oh we were joking. We're joking. Oh wait. No for real though 378 00:25:15,020 --> 00:25:19,100 You could not booty shorts, but you should get the chubby shorts. They have gay pride ones 379 00:25:19,180 --> 00:25:26,220 Oh, those are so cute. Yeah, my our boyfriend has one chubby. Yeah chubby's they're really good chubby's 380 00:25:26,300 --> 00:25:33,660 They're great board short or shorts to wear around the house for your boyfriend chubby's if you're looking for a new person 381 00:25:33,660 --> 00:25:39,340 To sponsor your material so you're gonna go for the the the the short shorts too 382 00:25:39,580 --> 00:25:43,660 I might I don't know anything about it. I need to see if these can get you're in time 383 00:25:43,900 --> 00:25:47,980 Hang on. Let me just add them in the cart anyways continue my get head on casting 384 00:25:48,620 --> 00:25:54,620 Your podcast thing booty short is like I got over to these booty shorts. Are you trying to get hit on the pride? 385 00:25:55,740 --> 00:25:56,860 so 386 00:25:56,860 --> 00:25:59,740 my uh, I've I have actually been to pride 387 00:26:00,620 --> 00:26:02,380 I haven't been to like 388 00:26:02,380 --> 00:26:05,420 I've seen the the parade go by but I haven't actually part 389 00:26:06,680 --> 00:26:08,680 participated in a parade 390 00:26:09,660 --> 00:26:13,580 But i've been to a pride event in pensacola florida actually I think i've been to two of them 391 00:26:14,300 --> 00:26:15,820 and it's 392 00:26:15,820 --> 00:26:17,820 it's really nice like 393 00:26:17,820 --> 00:26:23,180 especially with the smaller cities because you can you see a lot more of your friends there and 394 00:26:23,500 --> 00:26:28,380 You make a group of your friends and you get together you go hit up like like what you're doing 395 00:26:28,380 --> 00:26:33,820 You go to a bar restaurant that's in on like the street of the pride event and 396 00:26:34,380 --> 00:26:41,020 In pensacola, it would go through like the downtown pensacola area the town. I don't know you have either of you been 397 00:26:41,660 --> 00:26:43,660 Uh, I mean i've been to pensacola 398 00:26:44,220 --> 00:26:51,820 Yeah, yeah where the all like the bars are up on the street pride parade goes down that way and the event's all over there 399 00:26:51,900 --> 00:26:55,660 So we were just like hopping all the bars just hanging out and having fun 400 00:26:55,660 --> 00:27:01,660 And it's just great seeing all the pride flags all the banners all the flyers 401 00:27:01,900 --> 00:27:05,580 They even did like an event where they did a uh, like a film festival 402 00:27:05,900 --> 00:27:07,580 I forgot exactly what they called it 403 00:27:07,580 --> 00:27:14,560 But at nighttime they had a little film festival at that venue on the corner in downtown pensacola 404 00:27:14,860 --> 00:27:18,380 They have a lot of bands live bands and stuff and it was really nice 405 00:27:18,460 --> 00:27:22,220 like it wasn't like a uh, like an adult film festival it was just like 406 00:27:22,220 --> 00:27:25,020 people that are part of the community that are 407 00:27:25,820 --> 00:27:33,180 Photographers or videographers or actors or actresses displaying their skills and um coming together on projects 408 00:27:33,820 --> 00:27:36,460 Do you miss it? Uh pride in pensacola? 409 00:27:37,100 --> 00:27:40,380 A little bit. I did have some close friends there. Um 410 00:27:41,100 --> 00:27:42,220 and 411 00:27:42,220 --> 00:27:49,180 We did have a lot of fun during pride. I definitely and and I did I felt passionate when I lived there about 412 00:27:49,180 --> 00:27:54,220 You know fighting for trans rights. I wasn't as active as I could have been 413 00:27:54,700 --> 00:27:59,340 Because I had my own struggles I was going through and I wish I could go back and do more 414 00:28:00,140 --> 00:28:05,420 But yeah, I I do miss it. Sometimes i'm excited to start 415 00:28:05,740 --> 00:28:08,380 Going to the pride events out here because I heard they're 416 00:28:09,500 --> 00:28:11,500 Uh, they're much much different 417 00:28:11,820 --> 00:28:17,820 From uh, pensacola pride or any florida pride in that matter. So you're excited. You're excited 418 00:28:17,820 --> 00:28:19,820 to go to pride here. I am too 419 00:28:20,460 --> 00:28:25,020 And i'm excited for us to go together for the first time. Yeah, me too 420 00:28:25,900 --> 00:28:32,060 Mm-hmm, and i'm really excited that the first time that we're going together is the first time i'm going with one of my friends 421 00:28:33,260 --> 00:28:34,300 Yeah 422 00:28:34,300 --> 00:28:41,180 Yeah, that is exciting. It's super exciting and you're bringing your wifey. Yep. It's awesome 423 00:28:42,140 --> 00:28:44,140 awesome 424 00:28:44,140 --> 00:28:49,020 It really is like yeah like um 425 00:28:52,300 --> 00:28:54,860 Yeah, yeah pride 426 00:28:58,700 --> 00:29:00,700 Pride pride 427 00:29:01,420 --> 00:29:07,740 So pride it's i've i've i'm the only one that has been to an event in america 428 00:29:07,740 --> 00:29:13,980 Yeah, we talked about a little bit of you know, the events that we've been to or haven't been to 429 00:29:14,780 --> 00:29:15,660 but 430 00:29:15,660 --> 00:29:19,420 We still haven't gotten like what does pride really mean to each one of us? 431 00:29:20,060 --> 00:29:21,980 What does it mean? 432 00:29:21,980 --> 00:29:28,380 At its core not because of the event not because of the month but day to day every day of your life 433 00:29:28,780 --> 00:29:31,660 Or even whenever you found out you were different 434 00:29:32,220 --> 00:29:34,220 What did it mean to you? 435 00:29:34,220 --> 00:29:40,140 And i guess we can we can start with you jay, you know, like even you haven't put your opinion in in a second 436 00:29:41,020 --> 00:29:43,020 Hello 437 00:29:43,100 --> 00:29:50,620 So, I mean to me it's all about just being able to be yourself no matter what that is 438 00:29:53,020 --> 00:29:55,180 If you want to be a unicorn you can be a unicorn 439 00:29:57,260 --> 00:29:59,260 Really yeah 440 00:29:59,660 --> 00:30:01,180 so 441 00:30:01,180 --> 00:30:03,180 I am a unicorn 442 00:30:03,180 --> 00:30:05,260 What you what sound does a unicorn make? 443 00:30:11,420 --> 00:30:13,420 Okay, uh 444 00:30:14,300 --> 00:30:17,660 That's the sound of a unicorn die never getting a pet unicorn 445 00:30:19,420 --> 00:30:24,940 Is that all that means to you though, it's just it's just i think proud of who you are. I mean at its 446 00:30:25,900 --> 00:30:27,580 like 447 00:30:27,580 --> 00:30:29,580 At its value of of a word 448 00:30:29,580 --> 00:30:32,780 Well, I think it's more than just a word it's it's like 449 00:30:34,140 --> 00:30:35,100 like 450 00:30:35,100 --> 00:30:39,180 Being strong being who you are no matter what people think 451 00:30:39,900 --> 00:30:41,100 you know not 452 00:30:41,100 --> 00:30:42,140 uh 453 00:30:42,140 --> 00:30:49,260 Not worrying about others opinions when someone gives you hate you stand above it and you don't give into it you 454 00:30:50,060 --> 00:30:52,060 You don't fight back. You just like 455 00:30:52,780 --> 00:30:57,180 It doesn't even bother me like sometimes i'm so proud of being who I am 456 00:30:57,180 --> 00:31:02,300 someone could call me a horrible slur and i'm just like that's you know 457 00:31:03,020 --> 00:31:05,020 I hope you have a great day 458 00:31:05,100 --> 00:31:11,420 Really? I do and they'll be like I really hate you. You're a terrible person. I'm like, but I I honestly 459 00:31:11,820 --> 00:31:15,980 I really hope you're having a good day. Like I hope you have a great week 460 00:31:16,540 --> 00:31:19,340 And I really hope whatever's bothering you at the moment 461 00:31:19,900 --> 00:31:21,900 It fades soon 462 00:31:22,780 --> 00:31:25,340 Because sometimes I just like that's how I feel 463 00:31:25,340 --> 00:31:28,460 When you're proud nothing can bother you 464 00:31:29,820 --> 00:31:32,140 And that's what the celebration is about is being 465 00:31:32,700 --> 00:31:35,180 as loudly proud as you can 466 00:31:36,380 --> 00:31:37,900 it's just 467 00:31:37,900 --> 00:31:39,900 Being proud of who you are 468 00:31:40,300 --> 00:31:42,300 despite 469 00:31:42,300 --> 00:31:43,820 society 470 00:31:43,820 --> 00:31:45,820 Trying to tell you otherwise 471 00:31:46,620 --> 00:31:53,100 Trying to tell you that it's not okay to be who you are and trying to hide that like deep inside 472 00:31:53,100 --> 00:31:56,140 and trying to hide that like deep down all the time 473 00:31:57,260 --> 00:31:59,580 and pride's the place where you could 474 00:32:00,620 --> 00:32:02,940 Pride's the place where you should be able to go 475 00:32:03,660 --> 00:32:05,020 Be loud 476 00:32:05,020 --> 00:32:07,420 And everybody there is like yeah 477 00:32:08,700 --> 00:32:10,460 exactly 478 00:32:10,460 --> 00:32:11,660 family 479 00:32:11,660 --> 00:32:13,660 sister brother 480 00:32:14,940 --> 00:32:16,940 Fist bump fist bump 481 00:32:18,920 --> 00:32:20,440 Unicorns 482 00:32:20,440 --> 00:32:23,420 Unicorns no matter how they sound 483 00:32:25,100 --> 00:32:27,820 In my world they do sound pretty messed up 484 00:32:29,100 --> 00:32:31,100 But yeah 485 00:32:31,100 --> 00:32:33,820 Pride what does pride mean to me? Yeah 486 00:32:34,780 --> 00:32:36,940 What does pride mean to me? You tell me 487 00:32:39,340 --> 00:32:41,340 I have no idea. Okay. I'm not you 488 00:32:41,900 --> 00:32:43,900 What does it mean to you? 489 00:32:43,900 --> 00:32:45,420 Not just a word 490 00:32:45,420 --> 00:32:47,420 but like it could be 491 00:32:47,420 --> 00:32:54,780 Pride the event the you know that what does that mean to you or pride like I mean I kind of like what I was saying before 492 00:32:55,020 --> 00:32:57,020 pride 493 00:32:59,340 --> 00:33:01,020 Being prideful 494 00:33:01,020 --> 00:33:06,540 You know, it's it's being able to be loud about who you are 495 00:33:07,420 --> 00:33:09,100 despite 496 00:33:09,100 --> 00:33:12,060 Everything around you trying to silence you 497 00:33:14,540 --> 00:33:16,380 You know 498 00:33:16,380 --> 00:33:21,900 Yeah, trying to live in a box all the time trying to live in the right box all the time 499 00:33:23,580 --> 00:33:27,020 Pride is a place where you don't have to worry about that 500 00:33:28,540 --> 00:33:30,220 Oh 501 00:33:30,220 --> 00:33:31,820 Just everyone 502 00:33:31,820 --> 00:33:35,260 Being accepting I guess that's another part of pride 503 00:33:35,900 --> 00:33:37,900 is the just like 504 00:33:38,140 --> 00:33:40,780 accept acceptance and accepting like 505 00:33:40,780 --> 00:33:47,820 And I I hope everyone is able to go out and celebrate pride this year safely 506 00:33:48,380 --> 00:33:53,580 Yeah, I know there's a lot of places right now that are canceling events and 507 00:33:54,140 --> 00:34:01,980 Not all places are probably the the friendliest places to host a pride event, but hopefully everyone at least has 508 00:34:02,940 --> 00:34:09,660 like a friend or something where they can go to and have like a little party at their house 509 00:34:09,660 --> 00:34:11,660 Yeah, and 510 00:34:11,980 --> 00:34:18,460 But be get out there be proud of who you are be public about it. It's it's time to 511 00:34:19,500 --> 00:34:23,180 It's the month to be proud. It's the month to be 512 00:34:23,740 --> 00:34:31,020 out and about and if you're coming out if you're you know, you you're thinking about the fact that you might 513 00:34:31,580 --> 00:34:36,620 Be part of our community. This is the month to do it. This is the most like you will get 514 00:34:36,620 --> 00:34:41,900 Overwhelmed by the amount of love that you will get when you come out in a month like this 515 00:34:42,620 --> 00:34:44,620 It's it's it's a month to be 516 00:34:45,100 --> 00:34:47,100 To not be ashamed of who you are 517 00:34:49,580 --> 00:34:53,100 Because like no one should have to live in shame 518 00:34:53,900 --> 00:34:57,660 For just being who they want to be unless you're into that 519 00:34:58,380 --> 00:35:04,460 Yeah, I guess unless you're consenting a consenting adult with another consenting adult and you're not 520 00:35:04,460 --> 00:35:09,980 Consenting adult with another consenting adult and you want to be shamed then enjoy the shame. Yes 521 00:35:11,100 --> 00:35:13,100 Shame on you 522 00:35:13,980 --> 00:35:19,260 Obey mistress bangs. Oh, I'm sorry. Sorry. Excuse me 523 00:35:23,340 --> 00:35:25,340 Yeah, I don't 524 00:35:25,660 --> 00:35:27,660 Who is spanking who? 525 00:35:27,660 --> 00:35:34,220 So when two mommies love each other, they're really really much they spank each other 526 00:35:35,420 --> 00:35:37,420 very very much 527 00:35:37,660 --> 00:35:39,660 Really really much 528 00:35:39,900 --> 00:35:44,300 Didn't hit right very really very much really really 529 00:35:46,540 --> 00:35:51,660 Lots really really really really lots when they love each other really really lots 530 00:35:51,660 --> 00:35:57,180 Lots when two daddies and a mommy love each other very very much 531 00:36:01,900 --> 00:36:03,900 That's all you gotta leave it out 532 00:36:04,460 --> 00:36:06,940 What you just smiled and shaked your shoulder? 533 00:36:07,820 --> 00:36:13,180 When two pay piggies love a mommy really really much mommy has a good day 534 00:36:14,940 --> 00:36:19,500 I love that poem apple bottom jean boots with the fur 535 00:36:19,500 --> 00:36:22,140 What's the fur everybody looking at? 536 00:36:26,620 --> 00:36:29,740 Oh, um, yeah, so 537 00:36:31,740 --> 00:36:34,700 With pride obviously comes 538 00:36:35,980 --> 00:36:38,780 A lot of people being proud of being hateful 539 00:36:40,300 --> 00:36:42,300 And being more public about that 540 00:36:43,260 --> 00:36:46,860 Now the question is since we are partaking in a parade 541 00:36:46,860 --> 00:36:52,620 Are either you have either you thought about that? I know I talked to jay about it personally and 542 00:36:53,420 --> 00:36:57,100 They actually have added security at this parade 543 00:36:57,740 --> 00:37:03,500 Yeah, so our cool. Yeah, so our podcast actually got invited by the pride board 544 00:37:04,380 --> 00:37:06,620 so I had a few questions 545 00:37:07,500 --> 00:37:09,580 about like security and stuff just 546 00:37:11,020 --> 00:37:13,260 I know the climate of things 547 00:37:13,260 --> 00:37:20,220 And yeah, they told me that they've you know, they'll have hired security there make sure everything goes over smoothly 548 00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:27,260 End of the day if someone wants to be kind of a dick they can yeah 549 00:37:28,300 --> 00:37:29,260 but 550 00:37:29,260 --> 00:37:34,780 I mean it goes back to the golden rule that I talked about a couple episodes ago, you know if you 551 00:37:35,660 --> 00:37:39,260 Treat if you don't treat others the way that you want to be treated 552 00:37:39,260 --> 00:37:42,940 Then i'll punch you in the face. No, no, no, you said it word for word like this 553 00:37:42,940 --> 00:37:45,900 If you don't treat others like they want to be treated 554 00:37:46,940 --> 00:37:49,260 Punch them in the face. Yeah, so 555 00:37:51,020 --> 00:37:53,020 Directly into the face or like 556 00:37:53,740 --> 00:37:56,540 Oh, you got you got are we advocating for violence? No 557 00:37:57,180 --> 00:38:04,060 Okay. No, we don't have it once again. We do not advocate for violence here. He is just kidding and 558 00:38:04,620 --> 00:38:06,140 We love you all 559 00:38:06,140 --> 00:38:10,140 refer to our disclaimers 560 00:38:10,140 --> 00:38:12,140 Anyways, i'm not super 561 00:38:13,100 --> 00:38:15,420 Not super concerned or worried 562 00:38:15,980 --> 00:38:18,940 We're going to kind of a smaller town 563 00:38:19,660 --> 00:38:22,620 Pride parade. It's not like the big seattle one 564 00:38:25,180 --> 00:38:29,020 I I know a member of the pride board. I've talked to her about it 565 00:38:29,820 --> 00:38:31,260 so 566 00:38:31,260 --> 00:38:33,260 Cool, I think it's fine 567 00:38:33,260 --> 00:38:35,900 sweet, but do you think there's 568 00:38:36,540 --> 00:38:38,060 potential for 569 00:38:38,060 --> 00:38:40,060 people to be at risk 570 00:38:40,380 --> 00:38:42,380 especially now with 571 00:38:43,340 --> 00:38:44,540 So much 572 00:38:44,540 --> 00:38:53,260 So much public hate being out there so and it and trans people being brought up in politics so much now. Yeah 573 00:38:54,140 --> 00:38:56,140 So you do have to keep in mind 574 00:38:56,700 --> 00:38:59,180 My day-to-day job is an engineer 575 00:38:59,180 --> 00:39:03,100 So like one there is no such thing as zero 576 00:39:03,100 --> 00:39:06,700 Yeah, so there's always going to be some sort of percentage 577 00:39:07,740 --> 00:39:13,420 Of something bad happening and I think that goes back to what pride means to us 578 00:39:13,420 --> 00:39:16,460 Like we can't like live in fear. We cannot 579 00:39:17,100 --> 00:39:19,660 You know, oh, I don't think we should like go outside 580 00:39:19,660 --> 00:39:22,780 I think we should bunker down inside the house because then that's not 581 00:39:23,340 --> 00:39:25,340 Being loud and proud 582 00:39:25,340 --> 00:39:29,820 Being who you are you're letting them win if the fear overtakes you 583 00:39:30,300 --> 00:39:31,500 so 584 00:39:31,500 --> 00:39:32,780 Yeah 585 00:39:32,780 --> 00:39:34,780 Let's uh, let's go 586 00:39:34,780 --> 00:39:36,460 Have a good time 587 00:39:36,460 --> 00:39:38,460 and report back 588 00:39:38,460 --> 00:39:39,420 Yeah 589 00:39:39,420 --> 00:39:40,620 I'm excited 590 00:39:40,620 --> 00:39:46,380 I'm definitely excited. I have been I'm always like I don't know. I've always been nervous about 591 00:39:46,940 --> 00:39:49,500 Any kind of public event even you know 592 00:39:50,380 --> 00:39:53,100 You know before I transitioned into the public event 593 00:39:53,100 --> 00:39:59,100 You know before I transitioned and everything because there's just like throughout our whole entire childhood 594 00:39:59,100 --> 00:40:01,580 there's always been like some kind of report of like 595 00:40:02,540 --> 00:40:04,540 Shootings and stuff and it just scares me 596 00:40:05,340 --> 00:40:09,260 And I think that just comes with being an american now, which is sad 597 00:40:10,220 --> 00:40:16,940 it's so sad because that's where i'm at where like I I want to go to a public event and 598 00:40:16,940 --> 00:40:20,220 I want to go and join myself but in the back of my head I have to think about that 599 00:40:21,260 --> 00:40:22,780 I think that's 600 00:40:22,780 --> 00:40:28,460 Just our daily lives in general. I know a couple of weeks ago. I had a co-worker who 601 00:40:29,820 --> 00:40:37,180 She had to kind of be on call with her. She has I think about three tiny little children 602 00:40:38,220 --> 00:40:39,500 um 603 00:40:39,500 --> 00:40:40,860 There was a 604 00:40:40,860 --> 00:40:44,940 A gas station shooting close to the school were one of her children 605 00:40:45,980 --> 00:40:49,580 terrifying yeah, and she she was like I think I might have to go because 606 00:40:49,580 --> 00:40:55,420 You know they they've kind of like yeah, they're on lockdown and she's worried they might cancel school 607 00:40:55,900 --> 00:40:57,900 So I mean that's not even a 608 00:40:58,220 --> 00:41:03,580 Anything to do with pride or the community or anything like that. That's a very typical day-to-day 609 00:41:04,140 --> 00:41:05,580 American fear 610 00:41:05,580 --> 00:41:07,900 American fear. I mean, it's 611 00:41:08,460 --> 00:41:11,180 I don't want to say typical everyday american fear 612 00:41:11,180 --> 00:41:16,300 But that's someone just going about their day-to-day lives and having to deal with a shooting 613 00:41:17,020 --> 00:41:18,220 Yeah, so 614 00:41:18,220 --> 00:41:20,220 It's just so not normal 615 00:41:21,340 --> 00:41:24,220 Our country's full of guns. There's so many guns now. Yeah 616 00:41:26,220 --> 00:41:28,220 Like they always yeah 617 00:41:28,620 --> 00:41:29,500 Wow 618 00:41:29,500 --> 00:41:34,300 All those guns all the guns. Oh, what are you gonna do with all these guns? Oh all these 619 00:41:36,220 --> 00:41:38,220 Muscles 620 00:41:40,940 --> 00:41:42,620 Kidding 621 00:41:42,620 --> 00:41:45,820 Well, yeah, uh anything else we want to talk about pride related 622 00:41:45,820 --> 00:41:50,860 I mean i'm excited about going and i'm excited about getting to make those t-shirts 623 00:41:50,860 --> 00:41:53,420 I am really excited about that. I'm excited for all the bud light 624 00:41:54,140 --> 00:41:56,140 Oh 625 00:41:56,140 --> 00:42:03,180 Wait, I don't drink bud light actually like I either I I I love the fact that um company major companies are like 626 00:42:03,740 --> 00:42:07,740 in uh public support of the our community, but like 627 00:42:08,620 --> 00:42:11,820 At the same time bud light tastes like freaking water 628 00:42:13,020 --> 00:42:13,740 Yes 629 00:42:13,740 --> 00:42:14,940 I agree 630 00:42:14,940 --> 00:42:19,260 I agree. I always hated bud light. However 631 00:42:20,060 --> 00:42:22,460 Now with your recent marketing campaign 632 00:42:23,180 --> 00:42:26,140 I will personally buy more bud light. It is working 633 00:42:26,780 --> 00:42:33,500 I did notice ever since they did invest in the community and start like supporting us 634 00:42:34,060 --> 00:42:38,300 The taste did start tasting better. It tastes really good. I think their cells are up 635 00:42:39,100 --> 00:42:43,980 Yeah, they they improve the taste they made it sweeter or is it sweeter because 636 00:42:43,980 --> 00:42:45,980 Is they support us now? 637 00:42:46,540 --> 00:42:47,500 and 638 00:42:47,500 --> 00:42:49,500 So many people hate bud light 639 00:42:49,660 --> 00:42:51,660 And that's what makes it so sweet 640 00:42:54,700 --> 00:42:58,860 Oh, it's people are sipping in like i love the fact that you hate me 641 00:43:00,380 --> 00:43:03,900 So sweet, but their sales are up 642 00:43:04,620 --> 00:43:06,300 because now 643 00:43:06,300 --> 00:43:10,860 You're getting more people buying them both because of their recent 644 00:43:10,860 --> 00:43:15,680 Support and then also because kid rock is buying them just to shoot them 645 00:43:16,480 --> 00:43:18,480 See even bud light 646 00:43:19,280 --> 00:43:21,280 Has to worry about being shot 647 00:43:23,280 --> 00:43:24,720 Yeah 648 00:43:24,720 --> 00:43:27,600 Like the cans not where I was going with that, but yeah 649 00:43:28,160 --> 00:43:29,840 Yeah 650 00:43:29,840 --> 00:43:33,200 See, it's not it's not safe to be bud light can anymore 651 00:43:34,800 --> 00:43:39,440 I remember back in my day when it just wasn't safe to be a watermelon 652 00:43:39,440 --> 00:43:40,480 watermelon 653 00:43:40,480 --> 00:43:41,920 watermelon 654 00:43:41,920 --> 00:43:43,920 I remember back in my day when 655 00:43:45,120 --> 00:43:49,680 People didn't just take their beer out back and shoot it. They poured one out for their homies 656 00:43:50,880 --> 00:43:52,880 still do 657 00:43:53,600 --> 00:43:55,360 I'm just saying 658 00:43:55,360 --> 00:43:57,360 ever since bud light 659 00:43:57,680 --> 00:44:04,080 Came out as gay. They have been taking they have been tasting great. I tried one the other day 660 00:44:05,260 --> 00:44:07,360 phenomenal like 661 00:44:07,360 --> 00:44:13,360 Like, you know rain, you know how skittles taste a rainbow when I was drinking that fucking bud light 662 00:44:13,760 --> 00:44:15,760 I was tasting the rainbow 663 00:44:16,320 --> 00:44:17,760 Sorry skittles 664 00:44:17,760 --> 00:44:19,760 Well, I might have to steal that from you 665 00:44:20,000 --> 00:44:22,560 Taste the rainbow. Yeah, really seriously 666 00:44:23,200 --> 00:44:24,480 I just 667 00:44:24,480 --> 00:44:26,480 taste the rainbow 668 00:44:26,720 --> 00:44:28,240 I just think 669 00:44:28,240 --> 00:44:32,800 You're drinking different bud light than I am. Well, you then you're not drinking the gay bud light 670 00:44:33,600 --> 00:44:35,280 Taste the rainbow 671 00:44:35,280 --> 00:44:41,360 That wraps up our conversation today. We talked about a few things. I'm glad you stayed tuned up until this point 672 00:44:42,400 --> 00:44:46,020 Please follow us on our social medias twitter instagram 673 00:44:46,560 --> 00:44:51,120 We have discord if you want to follow us on discord join our community. 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