Episode 7: Pride Parade was GREAT! REVIEW

1 00:00:00,000 --> 00:00:04,320 Disclaimer this podcast features explicit language and discussions sexual in nature 2 00:00:04,320 --> 00:00:09,760 It may contain subjects uncomfortable to some please understand that the opinions shared on this podcast are not a representation 3 00:00:10,080 --> 00:00:13,220 Of any organization or employer the host may be a part of 4 00:00:23,440 --> 00:00:27,280 So something that's really cool that I did uh in the past week 5 00:00:27,280 --> 00:00:29,760 Is I went and saw 6 00:00:30,720 --> 00:00:35,840 The spider-man movie the new spider-man movie the intro to the spider-verse or into the oh 7 00:00:37,240 --> 00:00:39,240 I liked it. Oh 8 00:00:39,440 --> 00:00:42,000 Don't tell me anymore. It is very sad 9 00:00:43,280 --> 00:00:44,680 because 10 00:00:44,680 --> 00:00:46,680 spider-quen 11 00:00:48,680 --> 00:00:51,220 To death yeah, she dies to death 12 00:00:52,200 --> 00:00:54,480 You did not just and Peter Parker 13 00:00:54,480 --> 00:00:58,580 Also dies Peter Parker picked a peck of pickled peppers. I 14 00:00:59,400 --> 00:01:02,520 Swear if that actually happens in a movie. I'm going to be so pissed 15 00:01:03,280 --> 00:01:06,240 One person does have a spider-man costume on oh 16 00:01:08,320 --> 00:01:10,160 What do you mean? 17 00:01:10,160 --> 00:01:16,580 Like he's wearing the spider-man costume, so there's like a bad guy. He's like running around just like 18 00:01:17,960 --> 00:01:19,960 Doing shit 19 00:01:19,960 --> 00:01:24,840 So that's just Gwyn's fate. She's just she has to die 20 00:01:26,840 --> 00:01:31,480 I don't really think about that no because think about a Gwyn Gwyn usually does die yeah very sad 21 00:01:31,480 --> 00:01:37,920 I think one of my top two saddest spider-man movie moments ever Gwyn Stacy dying 22 00:01:38,640 --> 00:01:41,800 Mmm. Oh wait from an amazing spider-man. Yeah 23 00:01:41,800 --> 00:01:49,760 Yeah, that was pretty sad. Oh, I was tough. Yeah, to get through she got her back snapped in half basically 24 00:01:50,800 --> 00:01:53,120 There with me you stay with me 25 00:01:53,800 --> 00:01:58,200 Literally spider-man kills everybody trying to save her. I mean she was gonna die anyway 26 00:01:58,200 --> 00:02:02,600 She was headed for the concrete pretty fast. Yeah, but yeah 27 00:02:04,120 --> 00:02:08,520 Anyways in other news I tried a Starbucks is like new 28 00:02:08,520 --> 00:02:15,200 Coffee because they were handing out free samples of it at Starbucks new coffee new coffee 29 00:02:16,040 --> 00:02:17,520 What's it called? 30 00:02:17,520 --> 00:02:22,040 Aliyah, toh infused for Tana olive oil into Starbucks coffee 31 00:02:24,720 --> 00:02:25,920 Bravisimo 32 00:02:25,920 --> 00:02:30,560 Only after oh speaking of coffee don't forget to donate to us on Kofi for a cup of coffee 33 00:02:32,040 --> 00:02:34,040 Please we're thirsty 34 00:02:34,040 --> 00:02:40,000 Very thirsty it has I liked it a lot. I did not get the iced version 35 00:02:40,000 --> 00:02:43,360 I got the warm version typically I'm an iced coffee guy 36 00:02:43,600 --> 00:02:49,040 But they're only handing out samples of the like the warmed version, but I liked it a lot however 37 00:02:50,560 --> 00:02:56,860 I'm gonna warn everyone. Mmm. Hmm. It has olive oil in it the character from Popeye 38 00:02:57,720 --> 00:02:59,720 Yeah, all of 39 00:03:00,040 --> 00:03:01,400 oil 40 00:03:01,400 --> 00:03:06,080 Is there a full name olive oil? I think so olive. I thought it was olive oil. I 41 00:03:06,920 --> 00:03:11,400 Think it was olive oil. I'm not sure because you have spinach, you know olive oil 42 00:03:12,560 --> 00:03:14,720 And how was that? I? 43 00:03:16,240 --> 00:03:18,840 Again, I liked it a lot however I 44 00:03:19,960 --> 00:03:24,400 Have questions of if I were because you know I got like a tiny cup of it 45 00:03:24,400 --> 00:03:28,080 They're like do you want to try some free coffee, and I was like yeah, yeah 46 00:03:28,080 --> 00:03:33,080 Free that's all you have to say coffee free coffee. Thank you stranger in downtown, Seattle 47 00:03:37,440 --> 00:03:38,840 Uh 48 00:03:38,840 --> 00:03:44,120 She's even wearing a Starbucks unit. Oh shit. Are you sure that was coffee? No, I'm kidding. You're sure that was olive oil 49 00:03:44,120 --> 00:03:46,120 Yeah, so it was it was but um 50 00:03:46,920 --> 00:03:52,440 I'm just concerned about like consuming a lot of like espresso mixed with olive oil 51 00:03:52,440 --> 00:03:56,400 I'm not really sure what that's going to do to like one system 52 00:03:56,400 --> 00:03:58,400 internally 53 00:03:58,400 --> 00:04:00,960 You know I can only imagine it wouldn't be healthy 54 00:04:01,440 --> 00:04:08,360 But it is actually supposed to be healthy, so they're supposed. They're trying to like reduce the amount of creamer which is like 55 00:04:09,000 --> 00:04:14,720 Sweet sugary goodness and your coffee and replace it with olive oil, so it's supposed to be a healthy substitute 56 00:04:15,040 --> 00:04:19,760 I'm just worried about like another like bathroom target episode which 57 00:04:20,400 --> 00:04:22,880 Those of you that are fans of the podcast know what I'm talking about 58 00:04:22,880 --> 00:04:24,880 But with coffee 59 00:04:24,880 --> 00:04:29,880 Yeah, yeah, okay. Yeah, you're just covering all the morning beverages. Why don't you? 60 00:04:30,880 --> 00:04:36,040 It's just it's weird drinking olive oil. You know just now, but it was good. Yeah 61 00:04:36,640 --> 00:04:41,560 Also is free. I mean I'm always willing to try something. It's free like free stuff 62 00:04:41,560 --> 00:04:47,200 Yeah, like those guys. I like hand out the free CDs on this like street. I always take those those are so good 63 00:04:47,200 --> 00:04:50,000 I always seem to be like I'm not sure what that is 64 00:04:50,000 --> 00:04:54,640 Like street I always take those those are so good always seem to get a virus on my computer afterwards 65 00:04:54,640 --> 00:04:56,720 But I don't think that's related speaking which 66 00:04:58,040 --> 00:05:03,480 They don't know but we got we went to snow home ish pride, and we're back now. I mean they do know 67 00:05:03,480 --> 00:05:05,680 I mean they do know but okay, so 68 00:05:06,520 --> 00:05:12,100 Let me read we see if you don't know means you aren't watching and if you're not watching 69 00:05:12,840 --> 00:05:15,980 You have to go sit in the corner, but yeah, we uh 70 00:05:15,980 --> 00:05:19,180 It's no how much pride prayed. How'd you feel about that? 71 00:05:19,820 --> 00:05:21,820 It was so it was great 72 00:05:21,820 --> 00:05:23,380 It was a lot of like hurry up 73 00:05:23,380 --> 00:05:28,420 You have to be here by this time and then you're gonna like stand in the sun for like three hours not moving 74 00:05:28,940 --> 00:05:35,460 Bake for a little bit. Oh, yeah waiting for that parade to start up was oh yeah, it was a long waiting game 75 00:05:35,460 --> 00:05:41,500 All right, we got to see a protester get arrested. Yes. Oh, yeah, that was fun 76 00:05:42,580 --> 00:05:44,580 Yeah, apparently he 77 00:05:44,580 --> 00:05:47,580 Slapped an umbrella out of somebody's hand 78 00:05:47,580 --> 00:05:54,380 I also heard that because you know he did have like a loudspeaker attached to him if you remember yeah, so the 79 00:05:55,300 --> 00:05:59,300 Security and police told him that he was not permitted to use his loudspeaker 80 00:06:00,020 --> 00:06:03,620 And then he like repeatedly kept trying to use it 81 00:06:04,340 --> 00:06:10,100 Oh, and then a family got upset because he evidently was using profanity at 82 00:06:10,100 --> 00:06:14,140 Like a family with children. Oh wow and they're like stop 83 00:06:15,140 --> 00:06:21,780 And then supposedly and this is all like I'm not reading official police reports. This is just what I was told 84 00:06:22,500 --> 00:06:24,820 Supposedly he like chest bumped a guy 85 00:06:26,020 --> 00:06:27,460 Okay 86 00:06:27,460 --> 00:06:31,540 He was getting very uh, he was getting primitive there. He's getting like really aggressive 87 00:06:33,060 --> 00:06:38,420 I think we finally got to see like the last straw where he like knocked someone's face 88 00:06:38,420 --> 00:06:43,780 He like knocked someone's prideful umbrella out of their hand and then got arrested 89 00:06:43,980 --> 00:06:47,620 Yeah, it sounded like he was escalating. It was escalating 90 00:06:47,620 --> 00:06:52,860 I it almost seems like to me like he was trying to get arrested be like a martyr like yeah, I got arrested 91 00:06:54,420 --> 00:07:02,100 Either either way he was there not to be heard. He wanted to fight with somebody about something. Yeah 92 00:07:02,620 --> 00:07:03,740 Yeah 93 00:07:03,740 --> 00:07:05,740 well, thankfully there wasn't like 94 00:07:05,740 --> 00:07:08,380 It didn't seem like there was an abundant amount of people 95 00:07:09,340 --> 00:07:11,340 being there trying to 96 00:07:11,420 --> 00:07:13,420 protest against our 97 00:07:14,300 --> 00:07:19,580 Parade or are just just us having it's literally just have us celebrating us and having a good time 98 00:07:20,220 --> 00:07:22,220 I think I think it was like speckled 99 00:07:22,940 --> 00:07:27,740 Around and I think like we very much stayed kind of like in the epicenter of gayness 100 00:07:27,740 --> 00:07:30,460 So we like didn't see a whole lot, but I know 101 00:07:31,100 --> 00:07:34,220 one of my friends that did go she said um, 102 00:07:34,220 --> 00:07:35,420 a 103 00:07:35,420 --> 00:07:40,780 truck full of like guys pulled up next to her and started yelling at her to 104 00:07:41,260 --> 00:07:46,500 like she should go kill herself and oh my goodness, we should all die and 105 00:07:47,660 --> 00:07:48,940 You 106 00:07:48,940 --> 00:07:51,580 Anything trigger warning? Yeah 107 00:07:52,940 --> 00:07:58,340 Mmm, usually a trigger warning comes before that. Yeah, you do that before well, it's like dr 108 00:07:58,340 --> 00:08:02,580 Strange, you know, dr. Strange said like why is the warning at the end of the book? Yeah 109 00:08:02,580 --> 00:08:04,580 but 110 00:08:04,660 --> 00:08:09,700 No, so she she said that you know, she almost like turned around just went home, but she like 111 00:08:10,260 --> 00:08:14,020 Kind of like took a deep breath like reported them to the police and then continue just 112 00:08:14,660 --> 00:08:19,060 Stay out and have a good time. So well, that's good. I'm glad it didn't ruin anyone's time 113 00:08:19,060 --> 00:08:22,100 It's just people being stupid and ignorant. Yeah 114 00:08:22,900 --> 00:08:28,820 When I hear when someone does that to me, it just reminds me of an immature person just trolling online 115 00:08:29,380 --> 00:08:31,380 in online games 116 00:08:31,380 --> 00:08:34,420 Yeah, I don't probably the same person actually. I don't really get it 117 00:08:34,900 --> 00:08:39,300 Um, so like the the protester that got arrested obviously he had like the religious sign 118 00:08:39,300 --> 00:08:43,140 And I I did hear him saying that we were all gonna burn in a lake of fire 119 00:08:44,500 --> 00:08:45,620 um 120 00:08:45,620 --> 00:08:48,260 Just like news flash out there for everyone 121 00:08:49,300 --> 00:08:54,260 If you approach a situation like that and your goal is to try to convert people to your religion 122 00:08:54,820 --> 00:08:59,940 That approach is never gonna work like no one's gonna be like, oh my gosh 123 00:08:59,940 --> 00:09:01,540 Oh my gosh 124 00:09:01,540 --> 00:09:05,780 Yeah, sign me up. So let's go to your church. I don't know 125 00:09:06,420 --> 00:09:11,300 But I think the majority of people's response to him was actually really surprising 126 00:09:11,540 --> 00:09:14,660 So you had the religious person that was spewing hate 127 00:09:15,140 --> 00:09:20,820 Just pure hate and then the whole parade was like clapping and cheering and chanting like we love you 128 00:09:21,300 --> 00:09:23,940 Yes, I was like it should be the other way around right? I thought like 129 00:09:23,940 --> 00:09:30,500 The the religious people were supposed to say like oh we love you. Yeah, I know right? I don't know we're 130 00:09:31,300 --> 00:09:37,620 Yeah, love thy neighbor, right? Isn't that in the bible? Wait. No, it's hate thy neighbor. Oh, I'm sorry 131 00:09:38,340 --> 00:09:43,220 I'm sorry. I'm not well studied in it. So I wouldn't know no, I'm not you. Yeah, he came there to save us 132 00:09:45,220 --> 00:09:46,500 From 133 00:09:46,500 --> 00:09:49,140 What was it again diabetes from all the free candy? 134 00:09:49,780 --> 00:09:52,100 Yeah, there was a we did give a lot of free candy 135 00:09:52,100 --> 00:09:57,860 We had good candy too. Yeah, they they should have made signs about like too much candy 136 00:10:00,180 --> 00:10:05,860 Do you want to keep your feet if so change your ways don't eat candy 137 00:10:08,500 --> 00:10:11,940 Oh man candy. Yeah, we did pass out some good candy, but 138 00:10:12,740 --> 00:10:14,740 Yeah, I I didn't see 139 00:10:15,540 --> 00:10:16,900 I like oh no 140 00:10:16,900 --> 00:10:22,260 I actually did get nervous when I did see the guy with the like he was wearing a cowboy hat and some shades and he 141 00:10:22,260 --> 00:10:24,260 Had a bulletproof vest on under his shirt 142 00:10:24,980 --> 00:10:26,980 Remember seeing him? 143 00:10:27,220 --> 00:10:32,340 Yeah, is that necessary? Well to be fair, we do not know it was bulletproof 144 00:10:32,580 --> 00:10:39,300 I think it was more like tin foil to keep like the rainbows from penetrating him. Oh, okay. I mean, yeah 145 00:10:40,020 --> 00:10:43,380 He did if he wasn't wearing that protective armor and gear 146 00:10:43,380 --> 00:10:48,180 He would have definitely it would the parade would have turned him gay. Oh, yeah like 147 00:10:49,220 --> 00:10:50,260 guaranteed 148 00:10:50,260 --> 00:10:54,740 The shades the cowboy hat the mil the combat boots all necessary 149 00:10:55,540 --> 00:10:58,340 Oh, he was he was trying to like protect his 150 00:10:59,220 --> 00:11:01,220 Masculinity right there very much. So 151 00:11:01,700 --> 00:11:04,900 Very much. So I'm just curious how much this 152 00:11:05,700 --> 00:11:08,980 Experience that we had contrasts with other places 153 00:11:08,980 --> 00:11:13,300 You know like we we witnessed a protester get arrested and carried off, you know 154 00:11:14,500 --> 00:11:15,780 whereas 155 00:11:15,780 --> 00:11:19,220 some areas completely canceled pride altogether because 156 00:11:19,780 --> 00:11:25,460 Yeah, they were afraid of too much hate monger showing up and violence. Yeah 157 00:11:26,740 --> 00:11:31,860 It just makes me wonder what Seattle Pride's gonna be about and by the way, we might be at Seattle Pride 158 00:11:32,500 --> 00:11:37,620 That might be oh, we're gonna go. Oh, we're going it's gonna be a great party. It's gonna be a good party 159 00:11:37,620 --> 00:11:42,660 I'm excited. I'm gonna drink so much water at that party. Are you wearing your fishnets this time? 160 00:11:43,300 --> 00:11:45,300 I don't know sunscreen 161 00:11:46,500 --> 00:11:51,940 That's all I gotta say complain about tan lines, but sunscreen oddly. I'm not like super worried about the tan line 162 00:11:52,500 --> 00:11:54,500 It's like more so just 163 00:11:54,740 --> 00:11:55,540 wearing 164 00:11:55,540 --> 00:11:58,260 Fishnets, I don't know. I've never done it before. Yeah 165 00:11:58,980 --> 00:12:00,980 Yeah, like we said before 166 00:12:01,540 --> 00:12:03,860 If you wear fishnets and booty shorts 167 00:12:03,860 --> 00:12:07,380 expect to be flirted with by men 168 00:12:08,340 --> 00:12:12,980 But if I wear a collar though, people know that I'm already owned and then they won't approach me 169 00:12:14,340 --> 00:12:16,340 Maybe I'm kidding 170 00:12:16,820 --> 00:12:19,380 Some might get confused and be like, oh you want me to leash you then? 171 00:12:21,620 --> 00:12:27,140 Yeah, I could see the confusion yeah, I don't know I don't really know what I'm gonna wear I mean all our calling 172 00:12:27,700 --> 00:12:28,980 well 173 00:12:28,980 --> 00:12:30,980 You know what? We're gonna be wearing 174 00:12:30,980 --> 00:12:34,340 You know what we're gonna be wearing for our shirts, right? 175 00:12:36,100 --> 00:12:40,820 Yes, we are gonna be wearing our new sponsor t-shirts the ones I made 176 00:12:41,780 --> 00:12:44,820 Actually, we're getting new ones because our new sponsor is Puppensuds 177 00:12:45,700 --> 00:12:49,380 What Puppensuds? Puppensuds. Really? 178 00:12:50,180 --> 00:12:52,340 What's that? That was like a blink 179 00:12:52,940 --> 00:12:54,940 No, not blink brink 180 00:12:55,780 --> 00:12:57,780 Disney movie reference. Oh 181 00:12:57,780 --> 00:13:00,260 Did you guys see that movie the it's like 182 00:13:01,380 --> 00:13:06,980 Mid 90s. It's a movie about rollerblading, but it's kind of like the whole skate culture mentality 183 00:13:11,380 --> 00:13:13,380 No, I haven't seen that 184 00:13:13,380 --> 00:13:15,380 It's like so 185 00:13:15,700 --> 00:13:19,220 Wait, do we don't have a sponsor? We don't have a sponsor not yet, but 186 00:13:20,260 --> 00:13:24,980 Um, I'm gonna start applying for some sponsors so that we can at least like cover the cost of our podcast 187 00:13:24,980 --> 00:13:28,020 You know what's crazy about that parade? 188 00:13:28,820 --> 00:13:32,580 Is when they announced us before they announced us they said that there was 189 00:13:33,620 --> 00:13:37,540 What 2.5 billion people online watching us? 190 00:13:38,100 --> 00:13:43,620 Yeah, what was that about? What was that about? Was that a joke? Did they say where did you ever find that out? 191 00:13:44,100 --> 00:13:48,020 It's supposed to be like from their website, but I'm not too sure about that. They're 192 00:13:48,820 --> 00:13:52,340 Their rig at least seemed very official. So maybe 193 00:13:52,340 --> 00:13:56,020 Somebody was there capturing video. Yeah, so we need to find out 194 00:13:56,740 --> 00:14:03,060 Where it is and how we get it who yeah, who was that that was doing that? They had a really good setup 195 00:14:03,620 --> 00:14:05,620 Yeah, I will say 196 00:14:05,620 --> 00:14:07,380 Not super 197 00:14:07,380 --> 00:14:10,180 Organized that was kind of chaotic. Yeah. Yeah 198 00:14:10,820 --> 00:14:13,780 You know, they're trying to wait for everyone to get together. It's usually a weekend 199 00:14:13,780 --> 00:14:15,780 Not everyone's gonna be like, you know 200 00:14:16,100 --> 00:14:18,100 Up and at them like that, you know 201 00:14:18,100 --> 00:14:22,500 This was also their first event. So I'm sure I'm sure they're 202 00:14:23,060 --> 00:14:27,540 Taking notes for next year and how to make it more fluid for their first event though 203 00:14:27,940 --> 00:14:31,220 Good. It was good. I I'm impressed. They had a lot of vendors 204 00:14:32,020 --> 00:14:38,420 They had activities for younger people to do like they had like rock painting and all kinds of fun stuff 205 00:14:38,420 --> 00:14:43,460 You didn't even see that area. Did you that was like the front little grassy area right by the library? 206 00:14:43,460 --> 00:14:48,340 I think I saw the rocks and I was just like, you know, just rocks aren't my thing 207 00:14:48,820 --> 00:14:55,300 You know, like yeah, even in pokemon like the whole brock thing. I was like, okay cool. You're rock cool. Yeah 208 00:14:55,860 --> 00:14:57,860 rock rock 209 00:14:58,100 --> 00:15:00,100 Come on now. That's just like lazy writing 210 00:15:02,660 --> 00:15:06,900 Well, it's cuz he's the rock type gym leader, you know, yeah I get it. Yeah 211 00:15:07,620 --> 00:15:09,620 I'm sorry. I had to explain it 212 00:15:09,860 --> 00:15:11,860 I love brock 213 00:15:11,860 --> 00:15:20,340 No, but it was uh, I like that. It was a good time. Yeah, I I would like I guess um, if I had to give some feedback 214 00:15:20,980 --> 00:15:22,980 I would say 215 00:15:23,060 --> 00:15:25,700 Those of us that are in like the adult realm 216 00:15:27,060 --> 00:15:33,940 Maybe not sandwich them in between like a church group and a preschool. Yeah, that's something I did point out to them 217 00:15:33,940 --> 00:15:35,940 I was like, hey, um 218 00:15:36,180 --> 00:15:39,140 You know, we talked about like walking with somebody else 219 00:15:39,140 --> 00:15:44,580 Um, yeah, I'm like no like this is this is the list. I'm like, well, we're like a like 220 00:15:44,580 --> 00:15:49,380 I literally was like we're a bdsm podcast uh in between like a church group and a preschool 221 00:15:50,340 --> 00:15:51,460 Yeah 222 00:15:51,460 --> 00:15:53,460 Can someone put a little bit of? 223 00:15:53,620 --> 00:15:55,220 Thought into this 224 00:15:55,220 --> 00:15:56,580 Yeah a little bit 225 00:15:56,580 --> 00:16:00,500 They're like this is this is the list. Sorry. We can't change the list 226 00:16:01,060 --> 00:16:06,980 I was like, okay, it just might be a little awkward. Yeah, that was it was it was it wasn't that bad 227 00:16:06,980 --> 00:16:11,700 Anyways, uh talking about brock. He was the the pervy one 228 00:16:12,420 --> 00:16:17,060 On pokemon, right? He's the one that just wanted it. He wanted to bang nurse joy 229 00:16:17,060 --> 00:16:20,100 How could anything be terrible when it's what brought me to you? 230 00:16:23,940 --> 00:16:29,940 And he wanted to bang officer jenny, yeah, he wasn't interested in missy he wanted the older women 231 00:16:29,940 --> 00:16:37,060 The older women reporting is this where the theft occurred if you mean you're stealing away my heart then yes. All right 232 00:16:38,180 --> 00:16:42,580 He's really into uh, professor oak. Oh, no, i'm just kidding. Wow 233 00:16:43,380 --> 00:16:48,340 I was like, was that like a later season? No. Yeah, they're really progressive now 234 00:16:48,660 --> 00:16:53,780 Yeah, I just stopped watching after like season 40 when when jesse when james dressed up as a woman 235 00:16:53,780 --> 00:16:55,940 He was really in a well actually wasn't he? 236 00:16:55,940 --> 00:17:02,980 Uh, then he saw the clip that I remember seeing james had legit boobs in one of the brock fall for him 237 00:17:03,860 --> 00:17:06,980 Like wasn't that a thing in that episode? 238 00:17:07,860 --> 00:17:09,860 Yeah, the 239 00:17:10,820 --> 00:17:13,620 The only thing that's coming up is like quote 240 00:17:14,420 --> 00:17:17,700 brock being a simp for six minutes and 35 seconds 241 00:17:18,820 --> 00:17:22,660 I can't see for like brock falling in love with uh james. Well 242 00:17:22,660 --> 00:17:25,460 Yeah, we would have to watch the entire james episode 243 00:17:26,180 --> 00:17:27,220 which 244 00:17:27,220 --> 00:17:29,220 We totally have time for right now 245 00:17:31,140 --> 00:17:34,100 Let's watch it live. No, okay. We'll do it live 246 00:17:35,140 --> 00:17:37,460 I don't think why are we talking about james titties? 247 00:17:38,100 --> 00:17:41,460 I don't know. I personally I think really jesse 248 00:17:42,500 --> 00:17:44,500 I always had a thing for like female villains 249 00:17:45,780 --> 00:17:48,900 That's true poison ivy poison ivy catwoman 250 00:17:48,900 --> 00:17:50,900 Well, obviously catwoman 251 00:17:51,940 --> 00:17:53,940 We know why 252 00:17:54,180 --> 00:17:55,940 And you do too 253 00:17:55,940 --> 00:17:57,940 Don't go watch the movie 254 00:17:58,980 --> 00:18:04,820 Or literally anything with catwoman just just go to amazon look up a catwoman 255 00:18:05,700 --> 00:18:09,460 Halloween costume just google catwoman latex 256 00:18:10,020 --> 00:18:11,940 harley quinn 257 00:18:11,940 --> 00:18:13,940 Harley quinn definitely. Yeah 258 00:18:13,940 --> 00:18:21,220 Oh, yeah, quinn was but uh, we're getting sidetracked again. Yeah. What were we talking about? We're talking about the snowman's pride 259 00:18:22,100 --> 00:18:24,100 Oh, yeah. Oh, yeah 260 00:18:24,260 --> 00:18:30,820 I think um the amount of people that showed up was phenomenal. Oh, yeah, the amount of security they had 261 00:18:31,360 --> 00:18:32,420 phenomenal 262 00:18:32,420 --> 00:18:37,620 Uh the activities that they had wow a lot of great things a lot of great things 263 00:18:37,860 --> 00:18:40,660 What was your favorite part? I guess just like the support right? 264 00:18:40,660 --> 00:18:47,620 So just like walking down like downtown just home-ish and just seeing like everyone like cheering and happy and 265 00:18:48,580 --> 00:18:53,780 Yeah, like entire families are there with like children and you know, it's 266 00:18:54,740 --> 00:19:00,980 Yeah, very warm and welcoming environment. Yeah, that's what I really liked. Everyone was just 267 00:19:02,020 --> 00:19:04,020 Hi, happy to have you here. Yeah 268 00:19:04,820 --> 00:19:07,380 So it's like what like five angry people? 269 00:19:07,380 --> 00:19:11,540 and then like 600 happy joyful people 270 00:19:12,100 --> 00:19:18,260 Yeah, yeah, it just felt like everyone was getting the other it felt like celebrating a holiday, you know, yeah 271 00:19:18,580 --> 00:19:22,340 Everyone was just buying cool little knickknacks, you know 272 00:19:23,380 --> 00:19:27,380 Coloring rocks. There was like a a bus there with 273 00:19:28,180 --> 00:19:29,300 books 274 00:19:29,300 --> 00:19:30,500 that um 275 00:19:30,500 --> 00:19:34,500 Like if you had kids you could go up there and get um and buy books and stuff 276 00:19:34,500 --> 00:19:39,940 Which was really cool. Not just for children. I've seen that bus at like several different. Are you kidding me? 277 00:19:39,940 --> 00:19:43,060 Yeah, it's so epic. Oh my god. I should have went on there 278 00:19:43,860 --> 00:19:48,100 I think last time I saw them they were at octoberfest 279 00:19:48,900 --> 00:19:52,420 Really? So they do have they have books for all ages. Oh, yeah 280 00:19:52,740 --> 00:19:58,020 I mean, maybe they might be at seattle priden. They may have had they probably will they may have had 281 00:19:58,660 --> 00:20:00,180 the new book that 282 00:20:00,180 --> 00:20:02,180 I'm actually going to be reading 283 00:20:02,180 --> 00:20:06,100 The new book that i'm actually going to get soon, which is page boy 284 00:20:07,060 --> 00:20:13,140 Oh, yeah, elliot page came out with a new book. I'm a huge supporter of elliot page. Yeah, he's great 285 00:20:13,860 --> 00:20:15,860 great actor so 286 00:20:16,260 --> 00:20:18,260 Back to what I was talking about 287 00:20:19,140 --> 00:20:20,420 What? 288 00:20:20,420 --> 00:20:26,340 Which was the fact that seattle prize is gonna be different. Yeah, it's gonna be different from what we experienced as nahomish 289 00:20:26,660 --> 00:20:28,660 Yeah, i've heard it's a little bit more adult 290 00:20:29,300 --> 00:20:31,300 Yes. Yeah people 291 00:20:31,300 --> 00:20:33,300 have told me like jay 292 00:20:33,940 --> 00:20:39,220 If you don't at least wear booty shorts, they're probably not gonna let you near the parade 293 00:20:39,620 --> 00:20:42,740 Those are the exact words if you don't at least wear 294 00:20:43,460 --> 00:20:46,340 Shorts. Oh like what if you look like a a cis straight guy? Yeah 295 00:20:47,060 --> 00:20:49,860 Yeah, you got to spice it up to get close to the parade 296 00:20:49,860 --> 00:20:55,140 They're like you gotta wear like fishnet like maybe a fishnet top a collar. Maybe some like nipple clamps 297 00:20:56,020 --> 00:21:00,260 Yeah, and that's yeah, it's like an access badge at that point. Yeah, they're like well hold up 298 00:21:00,260 --> 00:21:02,500 Hold up. Hold up. You look a little straight 299 00:21:02,980 --> 00:21:07,540 So I will say I have already seen quite a bit of 300 00:21:08,480 --> 00:21:10,480 lgbt 301 00:21:10,820 --> 00:21:14,740 Community members making like youtube videos saying that you know 302 00:21:15,620 --> 00:21:19,220 kink and bdsm they do not belong and 303 00:21:19,780 --> 00:21:23,700 Pride parades and then like them showing like clips and then being like 304 00:21:24,260 --> 00:21:26,660 Shouldn't be welcomed. This is disgusting 305 00:21:27,140 --> 00:21:28,660 blah blah blah blah 306 00:21:28,660 --> 00:21:30,660 blah blah blah blah but 307 00:21:30,900 --> 00:21:34,900 I would say it's not so much of a kink and bdsm thing 308 00:21:35,540 --> 00:21:37,540 it's more like a 309 00:21:37,620 --> 00:21:38,980 um 310 00:21:38,980 --> 00:21:43,940 Public indecency thing. Yeah, because you can you don't have to be kink and 311 00:21:44,800 --> 00:21:46,100 bdsm to 312 00:21:46,100 --> 00:21:51,780 You know be naked and like the guy that you said the last episode like wearing like a bow around his like 313 00:21:52,500 --> 00:21:54,180 like yeah 314 00:21:54,180 --> 00:21:56,820 Um, this also happened in vancouver though 315 00:21:56,820 --> 00:22:01,460 So like I don't I don't know canada law. I barely know american law 316 00:22:02,580 --> 00:22:04,660 Like it might be it may be allowed there 317 00:22:05,060 --> 00:22:11,220 Yeah, but I think my point is like people like to specifically target the kink community and like this is disgusting 318 00:22:11,300 --> 00:22:16,900 Like no shouldn't be allowed like, you know, keep that in the bedroom and stuff and i'm like your your issue is not with 319 00:22:17,460 --> 00:22:19,460 kinky people it's like with 320 00:22:20,180 --> 00:22:24,100 You seeing adult stuff in the street, which is not just king 321 00:22:24,100 --> 00:22:30,340 They're not focusing on the fact that these are people exposing themselves in public, right? 322 00:22:30,820 --> 00:22:33,220 You know like at a public event you 323 00:22:34,660 --> 00:22:39,300 Honestly with breast I I think that I have a personal opinion on that matter 324 00:22:39,380 --> 00:22:45,780 Like I think breast should be free and open for everyone to see but obviously everyone has their own opinion and currently in a lot 325 00:22:45,780 --> 00:22:47,780 Of places that is a private area 326 00:22:48,100 --> 00:22:53,300 So if you're out in public at a public event that shouldn't be exposed, you know 327 00:22:53,300 --> 00:22:58,340 And if it is that's just someone doing indecent exposure 328 00:22:58,900 --> 00:23:01,780 And that's how it should be treated. It shouldn't be like oh 329 00:23:02,340 --> 00:23:05,940 The gay community. Oh, that's all they do. They like to get naked at their pride parades 330 00:23:05,940 --> 00:23:11,620 You know the kink community. They just like to display their kink no matter what doesn't matter who's around 331 00:23:12,100 --> 00:23:15,700 No, those people are being indecent 332 00:23:17,940 --> 00:23:19,940 And um 333 00:23:19,940 --> 00:23:23,860 Um, there is places and events where you can 334 00:23:24,660 --> 00:23:30,340 You know display that in the at the event, but there's places and events for that 335 00:23:30,660 --> 00:23:34,260 Yeah, and when you're coming to a very public event 336 00:23:35,060 --> 00:23:36,500 where 337 00:23:36,500 --> 00:23:40,980 News companies might be their families children's or children children's 338 00:23:41,780 --> 00:23:43,780 funny, um 339 00:23:44,020 --> 00:23:46,020 They you can't be 340 00:23:46,020 --> 00:23:51,460 You can't be doing that even if no matter how proud you are of your nude body 341 00:23:52,420 --> 00:23:55,000 It doesn't matter because it's not appropriate 342 00:23:55,860 --> 00:23:56,900 and 343 00:23:56,900 --> 00:24:02,580 That is that is and like I said, that's the problem is people are focusing more on the group 344 00:24:03,620 --> 00:24:10,100 Instead of that person just doing something inappropriate. Yeah individual people breaking the rules. Yeah, you know 345 00:24:11,300 --> 00:24:13,300 I think um, like for me 346 00:24:13,300 --> 00:24:15,380 when it's like oh you should be like 347 00:24:16,500 --> 00:24:19,780 Because i'm going to try to play like the devil's advocate. You're like, oh you should be like 348 00:24:20,740 --> 00:24:25,780 You should have pride for like the bdsm community. You should go out into the streets and you should show that 349 00:24:26,580 --> 00:24:28,340 Yes, okay 350 00:24:28,340 --> 00:24:30,020 Maybe i'll wear a collar 351 00:24:30,020 --> 00:24:35,540 Maybe like i'll fly like, you know the the leather flag exactly behind me 352 00:24:36,180 --> 00:24:37,940 i'm 353 00:24:37,940 --> 00:24:43,220 I'm not going to be like crawling around like on my hands and knees and getting like whipped in like the middle of the streets 354 00:24:43,540 --> 00:24:50,340 Yeah, and if you want to do that, there's literally events where you can go do that and there's going to be only adults there 355 00:24:50,740 --> 00:24:55,940 Yeah, and this is things that we need to as a community all of us bdsm community 356 00:24:56,500 --> 00:24:58,980 the gay community we need to be aware of because 357 00:24:59,620 --> 00:25:04,500 Now our events are more in the public eye and that's the change here is that? 358 00:25:04,500 --> 00:25:09,220 News companies a lot of major companies like bud light, you know all these you know 359 00:25:09,780 --> 00:25:16,100 Brands are coming out to these events bringing cameras and the more cameras the more social media exposure 360 00:25:16,580 --> 00:25:22,260 the more young people young minds can see this consume this and 361 00:25:22,740 --> 00:25:28,900 It's and then like I said it becomes where at an event you can't you can no longer be nude 362 00:25:28,900 --> 00:25:32,660 You can no longer do these kinky like such kinky things 363 00:25:32,660 --> 00:25:34,660 You need to keep it 364 00:25:35,460 --> 00:25:37,460 PG-13 because 365 00:25:38,020 --> 00:25:43,460 Everyone is seeing this now. It's no longer just our community. Just adults are seeing this, you know, yeah 366 00:25:44,260 --> 00:25:46,260 Everyone wants to celebrate people are 367 00:25:46,980 --> 00:25:48,580 proud to be gay 368 00:25:48,580 --> 00:25:50,580 from all ages all 369 00:25:51,120 --> 00:25:53,120 everywhere, so 370 00:25:53,220 --> 00:25:55,540 It's it's up to the individual to 371 00:25:55,540 --> 00:26:02,420 You know be responsible and abide by those rules that way our community as a whole doesn't get hurt 372 00:26:03,460 --> 00:26:05,300 you know 373 00:26:05,300 --> 00:26:06,420 Yeah 374 00:26:06,420 --> 00:26:09,860 I have nothing against nudity at all. I just I just think there's 375 00:26:10,660 --> 00:26:12,660 There's an appropriate space for that 376 00:26:12,900 --> 00:26:15,140 Time and a place there's a time and a place for that 377 00:26:16,260 --> 00:26:19,140 a lot of people at pride are there to be 378 00:26:21,140 --> 00:26:25,140 They just want to exist in a public space that's praising them I think you know 379 00:26:25,140 --> 00:26:27,140 yeah, and 380 00:26:28,260 --> 00:26:31,940 Somewhere where you can go where you could be proud to be who you are and 381 00:26:34,020 --> 00:26:36,020 Not everybody's there to like 382 00:26:37,180 --> 00:26:39,180 expose themselves and 383 00:26:39,540 --> 00:26:42,900 you know try to hook up with everybody and 384 00:26:45,180 --> 00:26:47,180 Yeah 385 00:26:47,340 --> 00:26:49,620 That's a whole other topic I guess 386 00:26:49,620 --> 00:26:54,340 Yeah, some people just want to be like little cat girls and just play around with some catnip 387 00:26:55,140 --> 00:26:56,660 And that's okay 388 00:26:56,660 --> 00:27:01,860 No, no, then that's totally okay. That is actually there's not plenty of catnip 389 00:27:03,140 --> 00:27:05,140 There's no nudity in that 390 00:27:05,140 --> 00:27:07,540 Something inappropriate about that there can be 391 00:27:08,100 --> 00:27:12,740 So many inappropriate things cat girls can do like lap of milk 392 00:27:13,380 --> 00:27:14,900 from a bowl 393 00:27:14,900 --> 00:27:18,100 So Jay, yeah, snow homish was your first 394 00:27:18,100 --> 00:27:20,100 Pride event like we're saying 395 00:27:20,100 --> 00:27:22,820 What do you think? What are you expecting to see at this? 396 00:27:23,380 --> 00:27:25,940 Seattle one. I know you mentioned how 397 00:27:26,900 --> 00:27:30,020 You're going to have to wear booty shorts to enter into the parade 398 00:27:31,060 --> 00:27:33,460 What else are you feeling about this like 399 00:27:34,260 --> 00:27:40,900 Are you feeling like it's gonna be as wild as everyone says it is? Yeah, so like right now in my head. I'm picturing like 400 00:27:41,540 --> 00:27:44,820 Burning man, but running through the streets with more rainbows 401 00:27:44,820 --> 00:27:47,860 Hmm wait, what's burning man again? 402 00:27:50,100 --> 00:27:54,100 Yeah, we never went to burning man, she's kidding right, but you know what it is though 403 00:27:54,100 --> 00:27:56,100 No, I don't actually is that the 404 00:27:56,980 --> 00:28:03,300 The festival like out in the desert where everyone does like is that the thing where they poured bees all over nickel's cage? 405 00:28:04,660 --> 00:28:06,660 What is that? What is that? What is it? 406 00:28:08,180 --> 00:28:10,820 Oh, no, not the bees not the bees 407 00:28:10,820 --> 00:28:14,740 Oh, no, not the bees not the bees. Ah 408 00:28:16,340 --> 00:28:18,340 Oh my eyes my eyes 409 00:28:22,340 --> 00:28:24,340 That's the wicker man 410 00:28:25,140 --> 00:28:27,140 i'm like 411 00:28:27,220 --> 00:28:32,020 Somewhat ashamed to know like that reference why nicolas cage is a hero 412 00:28:33,380 --> 00:28:35,380 he was really great in that movie, but 413 00:28:35,380 --> 00:28:40,740 I don't know if you guys have seen it but it's a really good movie. I think it's a good movie 414 00:28:40,740 --> 00:28:42,740 I think it's a good movie. I think it's a good movie 415 00:28:43,620 --> 00:28:50,100 So wicker man and burning man are two different things. No, but wicker man could be set on fire really easily 416 00:28:51,380 --> 00:28:56,340 So they're the same thing now. So burning man is that okay? I think I know what it is 417 00:28:56,340 --> 00:28:58,340 It's where they do psychedelics in the desert 418 00:28:59,140 --> 00:29:01,140 and a lot of people 419 00:29:01,140 --> 00:29:06,500 Burning man, you're really focused on the nicolas cage movie 420 00:29:08,100 --> 00:29:11,460 I love nicolas cage burning man is where 421 00:29:12,340 --> 00:29:18,420 Um, he like steals like an airplane and he's trying to get to his kid in time for christmas. So the one with the bunny 422 00:29:18,820 --> 00:29:20,820 Yeah, put the bunny 423 00:29:20,980 --> 00:29:22,980 back in the box 424 00:29:25,780 --> 00:29:29,160 My favorite one was when he swapped faces with john travolta 425 00:29:29,160 --> 00:29:32,200 Yeah, it had a little face off there 426 00:29:37,720 --> 00:29:43,880 Apparently there's a version of that movie where they used ai to give both of them nicolas cage's face 427 00:29:43,880 --> 00:29:45,880 I really want to watch that nice 428 00:29:46,520 --> 00:29:50,600 Yes, finally ai something for something good sounds like a nightmare 429 00:29:51,400 --> 00:29:55,720 I mean, I'd watch it. Oh, wait. Did you say they're both nicolas cage's face? 430 00:29:55,720 --> 00:30:01,560 Cages face. Mm-hmm. Oh, okay. I thought you said they're both john travolta's face. I was like, ah, that's a nightmare 431 00:30:02,280 --> 00:30:03,720 so 432 00:30:03,720 --> 00:30:05,640 It is pride month 433 00:30:05,640 --> 00:30:07,640 if anyone out there is 434 00:30:08,500 --> 00:30:10,600 questioning 435 00:30:10,600 --> 00:30:13,960 Am I trans or maybe I am trans? 436 00:30:15,560 --> 00:30:19,240 What advice can you give them right now? First off you need to do research 437 00:30:20,120 --> 00:30:21,960 um 438 00:30:21,960 --> 00:30:28,360 Look up youtubers podcasts that have trans people in it try to relate to them if you have things that relate to them 439 00:30:29,080 --> 00:30:30,920 That's that's a good start 440 00:30:30,920 --> 00:30:33,880 I mean, yeah, anytime someone approaches me 441 00:30:34,760 --> 00:30:36,760 and says 442 00:30:36,760 --> 00:30:38,760 I'm questioning, you know 443 00:30:39,720 --> 00:30:41,320 What should I do? 444 00:30:41,320 --> 00:30:47,160 Where should I go first? I list like a bunch of resources that they can find on the internet. But um, ultimately 445 00:30:47,160 --> 00:30:51,560 I try to advise that they talk to somebody that's a professional that can 446 00:30:52,920 --> 00:31:00,520 handle that topic and help them navigate in their own mind like what that means for them because 447 00:31:02,120 --> 00:31:05,720 Like i've said before everybody's different being trans means 448 00:31:06,600 --> 00:31:08,440 something different to 449 00:31:08,440 --> 00:31:10,280 most people 450 00:31:10,280 --> 00:31:14,120 So that's that's really between them and their therapist 451 00:31:14,120 --> 00:31:16,440 You know to try to figure that out 452 00:31:17,160 --> 00:31:18,680 youtubers 453 00:31:18,680 --> 00:31:20,680 podcasts 454 00:31:20,680 --> 00:31:21,720 um 455 00:31:21,720 --> 00:31:23,880 Just I mean we were talking earlier 456 00:31:24,360 --> 00:31:28,040 uh elliot page writing a whole memoir on his life so 457 00:31:28,600 --> 00:31:29,800 books 458 00:31:29,800 --> 00:31:32,520 It's just there's a lot of resources. Um 459 00:31:33,080 --> 00:31:38,520 That can be had nowadays to more than ever. Yeah, you just google 460 00:31:39,080 --> 00:31:41,080 I think i'm trans 461 00:31:41,080 --> 00:31:43,080 And there should be stuff there 462 00:31:43,080 --> 00:31:45,080 Should be stuff there for you, you know 463 00:31:46,360 --> 00:31:48,840 I was um, I was sitting in a conference 464 00:31:50,120 --> 00:31:52,360 This week this past week 465 00:31:53,240 --> 00:31:57,080 I kind of like took a picture of like some like a little infographic here 466 00:31:57,640 --> 00:31:59,160 um 467 00:31:59,160 --> 00:32:01,160 So members of the lgbt 468 00:32:01,880 --> 00:32:09,480 Qia plus community are 2.5 times more likely to experience depression anxiety and substance abuse 469 00:32:10,120 --> 00:32:12,120 And are four times more likely 470 00:32:12,120 --> 00:32:13,800 um 471 00:32:13,800 --> 00:32:15,640 to attempt suicide 472 00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:17,640 and 473 00:32:17,640 --> 00:32:19,240 I think 474 00:32:19,240 --> 00:32:22,520 For a lot of us it's not needed 475 00:32:23,640 --> 00:32:24,680 right 476 00:32:24,680 --> 00:32:30,040 Because you should reach out you should try to talk to somebody so for instance last month was mental health awareness 477 00:32:31,160 --> 00:32:33,640 And I know this does not apply to everyone out there 478 00:32:34,440 --> 00:32:35,480 um 479 00:32:35,480 --> 00:32:38,040 but I kind of looked into my employer and 480 00:32:39,080 --> 00:32:41,080 They offer through my employer 481 00:32:41,080 --> 00:32:44,940 They offer 12 free therapy sessions every year 482 00:32:45,740 --> 00:32:48,460 free and then I looked at my insurance and 483 00:32:49,340 --> 00:32:56,620 My insurance after those 12 free sessions, it would only be like 20 dollars per session to continue seeing the therapist and I know 484 00:32:57,660 --> 00:33:05,100 You know, well you're in washington state like mental health is like very, you know, it's valued a lot higher out here 485 00:33:05,100 --> 00:33:10,620 Uh, but I would say like there are resources out there that people just don't know about. Oh, yeah 486 00:33:11,500 --> 00:33:15,100 I totally agree with you. I think a lot of times it might be 487 00:33:15,900 --> 00:33:22,220 A stigmatism of like wanting to go talk to somebody right? Like none of us we we don't want to feel 488 00:33:23,100 --> 00:33:25,980 Weak or like something is wrong with us 489 00:33:26,780 --> 00:33:31,580 Well, and also some of us just have trust issues like i've been when I was younger 490 00:33:32,380 --> 00:33:34,380 I had therapists that 491 00:33:34,380 --> 00:33:36,380 uh told me my 492 00:33:36,940 --> 00:33:38,940 Gay thoughts and stuff were wrong 493 00:33:39,420 --> 00:33:45,660 And that they were bad for me and stuff like that and like when you have experiences that like that when you're young you don't 494 00:33:45,660 --> 00:33:46,940 want to ever 495 00:33:46,940 --> 00:33:52,300 See a therapist again, even though that therapist wasn't the right one for you when you're finding a therapist 496 00:33:52,300 --> 00:33:55,900 It's like it's kind of like I I see it as like shopping for car insurance 497 00:33:55,900 --> 00:34:01,340 You're looking for the right fit for you. Not every therapist is a right fit for you 498 00:34:01,340 --> 00:34:07,980 It's it's um, you're looking for the one that has the best costs. Um, you're looking for the one that gives you the 499 00:34:08,860 --> 00:34:13,500 Greatest benefits the greatest tools to help you with whatever you're going through 500 00:34:14,460 --> 00:34:17,900 Um, and that's something I learned over time is that you don't just 501 00:34:18,620 --> 00:34:22,940 Call therapists and you stick with them you you shop for a therapist 502 00:34:22,940 --> 00:34:23,500 Yeah 503 00:34:23,500 --> 00:34:29,420 You can also kind of do a little bit of research into that person and see if they're like an ally for instance 504 00:34:29,420 --> 00:34:31,660 And if they're like kink friendly 505 00:34:32,460 --> 00:34:38,300 Um, and then you can also just kind of probe right? So oh, yeah, like um, for instance 506 00:34:38,780 --> 00:34:43,260 When I saw that I had 12 free therapy sessions. I was like, well, fuck it. I'm gonna use it 507 00:34:44,300 --> 00:34:46,300 um, and I kind of like 508 00:34:46,940 --> 00:34:52,380 Through something like bdsm. I did some research on the person first and I threw something bdsm out there 509 00:34:52,860 --> 00:34:55,020 And she was kind of like oh well 510 00:34:55,020 --> 00:34:59,660 There's nothing wrong with like bdsm as long as it's like safe sane and consensual 511 00:35:00,300 --> 00:35:01,580 um, you know that 512 00:35:01,580 --> 00:35:03,980 You know, it's perfectly normal and fine and I was like 513 00:35:04,860 --> 00:35:06,860 Oh, we're gonna get along. Okay. Okay 514 00:35:07,420 --> 00:35:08,540 Exactly 515 00:35:08,540 --> 00:35:11,900 But yeah, but I think um, you know if she would have been like, oh, yeah 516 00:35:11,900 --> 00:35:17,020 Like we need to talk about bdsm like maybe dig into that a little bit deeper and try to figure out like 517 00:35:17,420 --> 00:35:19,900 What's wrong with you or something? I'd be like 518 00:35:21,020 --> 00:35:23,020 Yeah 519 00:35:23,020 --> 00:35:29,580 Um, I think that's a common misconception with therapy is uh, uh 520 00:35:30,700 --> 00:35:34,060 You have the choice to pick your therapist 521 00:35:34,460 --> 00:35:37,100 like you don't have to let that be picked for you because 522 00:35:37,580 --> 00:35:40,940 it's for your mental health and your well-being and 523 00:35:41,820 --> 00:35:43,820 Who better to know? 524 00:35:44,300 --> 00:35:45,340 like 525 00:35:45,340 --> 00:35:47,500 About you than you, you know, like 526 00:35:47,500 --> 00:35:52,300 Um, you know who like the people you like you know 527 00:35:53,020 --> 00:35:58,460 How you want to be talked to and how you want your problems handled? 528 00:35:58,940 --> 00:36:00,940 Then find that person that does it 529 00:36:01,100 --> 00:36:03,100 that way 530 00:36:03,100 --> 00:36:06,140 Because therapy is good for everyone. Everyone should have a therapist 531 00:36:06,700 --> 00:36:08,700 I will also say that 532 00:36:09,420 --> 00:36:16,140 You know don't just always agree with your therapist like kind of like reflect and see like does that is that actually true? 533 00:36:16,140 --> 00:36:18,140 Like does that resonate with me? 534 00:36:18,700 --> 00:36:20,060 because 535 00:36:20,060 --> 00:36:23,020 whenever like previously in therapy 536 00:36:23,820 --> 00:36:29,580 if someone said something like oh like do you think it's uh, blah blah blah and 537 00:36:29,660 --> 00:36:35,420 It's either like in an instant like oh shit. You are right. Yep, or it's kind of like a 538 00:36:36,060 --> 00:36:38,060 Uh, you know, i'm not really sure about that 539 00:36:38,140 --> 00:36:44,300 Well, I think some people go to a therapist and they're like, I don't know. Tell me what to do and the therapist 540 00:36:44,300 --> 00:36:49,500 Is like that's not my job. Yeah, I can give you advice on what I think you should do. Yeah 541 00:36:51,340 --> 00:36:52,860 Here you go 542 00:36:52,860 --> 00:36:55,100 Even if you're using therapy as just like venting 543 00:36:55,900 --> 00:37:01,340 It's healthy. Yeah, it's healthy to have someone that's not in your life at all 544 00:37:02,300 --> 00:37:05,660 To listen to your problems because they can give you an unbiased opinion 545 00:37:05,660 --> 00:37:10,780 They can be like hey, you know, you're kind of being a little ridiculous or they can be like no you 546 00:37:10,780 --> 00:37:16,860 You I I agree with you totally, you know, like you're not being ridiculous. You should be asking for this and that you know 547 00:37:17,980 --> 00:37:21,100 Therapy is great. It's just healing 548 00:37:21,740 --> 00:37:27,340 And i'm not saying and and that's another misconception is that once you get therapists you have to see them all the time all the time 549 00:37:27,900 --> 00:37:29,900 You can go for a couple sessions 550 00:37:30,300 --> 00:37:31,660 Take a break 551 00:37:31,660 --> 00:37:34,380 Go back for a couple more sessions take another break 552 00:37:35,900 --> 00:37:37,900 That's their profession they're gonna be there 553 00:37:37,900 --> 00:37:44,140 So therapy, yeah therapy we advocate for therapy brought to you by therapy 554 00:37:45,500 --> 00:37:47,500 No 555 00:37:48,380 --> 00:37:53,100 But for as far as like people thinking that they're trans and 556 00:37:53,660 --> 00:37:57,260 Coming out. I know whenever I was questioning that I started 557 00:37:57,820 --> 00:38:03,820 Talking to trans people interacting with more trans women because I I thought I was a trans woman 558 00:38:04,380 --> 00:38:06,460 um and watching um 559 00:38:06,460 --> 00:38:10,860 A lot because back then we didn't have you couldn't just google i'm trans. What do I do? 560 00:38:11,500 --> 00:38:13,660 Like this was like 10 years ago 12 years ago 561 00:38:14,380 --> 00:38:15,420 um 562 00:38:15,420 --> 00:38:17,420 So we had to find other people 563 00:38:17,820 --> 00:38:22,700 back then we had youtube youtube definitely had a lot of trans creators and I 564 00:38:23,320 --> 00:38:28,140 Consumed a lot of youtube and I just went into a deep dive as we say into 565 00:38:28,700 --> 00:38:34,700 Trans creators in youtube. They all had things that related to me, you know as far as like 566 00:38:34,700 --> 00:38:35,920 questioning 567 00:38:35,920 --> 00:38:39,360 Whether or not I wanted to be a guy, you know, it's just 568 00:38:40,320 --> 00:38:43,120 When you find people that you can connect with 569 00:38:44,080 --> 00:38:46,640 You're it's like holy crap. I'm not weird 570 00:38:47,200 --> 00:38:49,200 I'm not the only one 571 00:38:49,200 --> 00:38:51,840 You don't feel like it's some kind of weird alien or something 572 00:38:53,040 --> 00:38:56,080 And after that i've not that's why I went to find therapy 573 00:38:56,720 --> 00:38:59,200 Because I wanted to confirm what I found 574 00:38:59,680 --> 00:39:02,160 Yeah, it's nice to know that other people 575 00:39:02,160 --> 00:39:04,720 Like you and the world exists it's 576 00:39:05,440 --> 00:39:07,440 Feels a little less alone. Yeah 577 00:39:08,000 --> 00:39:10,160 Therapy can be intimidating it was for me 578 00:39:10,160 --> 00:39:16,160 So that's why I went for youtube creators and watching other trans women that are in the public eye and seeing 579 00:39:17,360 --> 00:39:19,360 Trying to compare my life to theirs 580 00:39:20,080 --> 00:39:25,600 And then from there you can go like well, you know, I think i'm trans I need a therapist 581 00:39:26,960 --> 00:39:28,960 It's baby steps don't just 582 00:39:28,960 --> 00:39:32,000 Pop the hormones in your mouth right away 583 00:39:32,320 --> 00:39:34,320 the egg days 584 00:39:34,320 --> 00:39:36,320 Yeah, we call them eggs 585 00:39:36,880 --> 00:39:41,840 I remember being an egg me too. Yeah, I think um, I think in general people 586 00:39:42,480 --> 00:39:45,920 There's a huge like stigmatism against like mental health. Um 587 00:39:46,720 --> 00:39:50,720 I know like I was raised that you think oh, yeah, I know 588 00:39:51,280 --> 00:39:54,960 But I was definitely raised that like men we do not talk about our feelings 589 00:39:54,960 --> 00:39:59,680 Like it's more acceptable to go and like drink it away and bury it deep inside 590 00:39:59,680 --> 00:40:02,480 But like you should never show weakness and you should never 591 00:40:03,200 --> 00:40:05,200 like talk about your feelings like 592 00:40:06,880 --> 00:40:12,080 But it's just not healthy, you know, and I I think society is changing 593 00:40:13,440 --> 00:40:17,360 But it does start with us. I think like the more people that 594 00:40:18,080 --> 00:40:22,160 Like and also be open about it. Like hey, you know what? Like yeah, i'm going to therapy 595 00:40:22,160 --> 00:40:25,360 Yeah, and you know people might be like what you why like 596 00:40:25,840 --> 00:40:29,200 How does that work? You know, you kind of like open up like other people's eyes to 597 00:40:29,920 --> 00:40:36,400 Like therapy is not yeah, you don't have to be there's not have to be an issue with you. Yeah, I like 598 00:40:37,600 --> 00:40:40,480 That's so funny that that's where we're at with therapy and 599 00:40:41,200 --> 00:40:47,440 This social stigmatism around it that when you say you're having that you're going to a therapist people are like what's wrong? 600 00:40:48,240 --> 00:40:50,480 There could be literally no 601 00:40:50,480 --> 00:40:53,680 There could be literally nothing wrong and you see a therapist 602 00:40:54,880 --> 00:41:02,720 Just a vent about your daily life stress, which is completely healthy and I have contemplated doing it many of times 603 00:41:03,440 --> 00:41:10,400 Because you don't want to dump all your stress inventing feeling vented feelings on a friend. They don't want to hear that 604 00:41:11,680 --> 00:41:14,000 And if they are you're gonna hear theirs in return 605 00:41:14,000 --> 00:41:20,240 I mean sometimes your friend wants to hear yeah, that's true, but not all the time good friends 606 00:41:21,360 --> 00:41:24,160 No one will no one will listen 607 00:41:25,600 --> 00:41:31,920 Yeah, jake keeps trying to talk about his problems to me and I just yeah, we don't have time we're just like go see a therapist no 608 00:41:32,720 --> 00:41:35,280 Hello darkness my old friend 609 00:41:38,320 --> 00:41:41,040 I'm excited for seattle pride. Yeah 610 00:41:41,040 --> 00:41:46,640 Same yeah, maybe we'll uh do some live streaming out there. I don't know. What should I wear? 611 00:41:48,320 --> 00:41:52,880 I don't know. We literally had like half of an episode talking about what we're gonna wear 612 00:41:54,560 --> 00:41:59,360 Like obviously, you know listen to homish one. Yeah 613 00:42:00,400 --> 00:42:03,200 I wore like regular human people clothes 614 00:42:03,200 --> 00:42:06,480 I don't want to like go straight up like lingerie or anything 615 00:42:06,480 --> 00:42:13,120 But I want to like I want to wear something a little spicy and fun. We're wearing a natural some t-shirts. That's for sure 616 00:42:14,320 --> 00:42:16,320 We are again. Yeah 617 00:42:17,520 --> 00:42:19,520 Do you still have yours? 618 00:42:19,520 --> 00:42:20,400 I do 619 00:42:20,400 --> 00:42:22,640 I thought we were supposed to I thought they were disposable 620 00:42:22,640 --> 00:42:30,400 I'd like signed mine and gave them to a fan in the crowd. No, you don't. Yeah with the candy. They're gone. They're gone 621 00:42:31,440 --> 00:42:33,440 They bought it for the whole time 622 00:42:33,440 --> 00:42:37,120 They're gone. They bought it for a lot of money 623 00:42:38,240 --> 00:42:42,640 Two dollars two entire dollars two entire. Whoa, i'm actually wearing 624 00:42:44,320 --> 00:42:46,720 Oh, yeah, that's right. You are wearing the one you made. Yeah 625 00:42:48,080 --> 00:42:53,840 What's going on? Thank you. It doesn't say a natural someone yet. Oh, I have the letters downstairs 626 00:42:53,840 --> 00:42:55,840 All I have to do is iron them on 627 00:42:56,800 --> 00:42:58,800 Wow, maybe all crooked 628 00:43:00,320 --> 00:43:02,320 Yeah, so um 629 00:43:02,320 --> 00:43:04,880 Thanks for sticking around. We were just talking about pride 630 00:43:05,420 --> 00:43:06,880 topics 631 00:43:06,880 --> 00:43:10,080 Be sure to check down in the comments for 632 00:43:10,960 --> 00:43:15,040 our links where you can buy us a coffee from kofi and also 633 00:43:15,920 --> 00:43:20,480 Contribute to our patreon join our discord server and so much more 634 00:43:21,280 --> 00:43:24,800 I'm jay wheeler and don't ever forget be yourself 635 00:43:25,840 --> 00:43:30,080 Also, don't forget to follow us on all our socials. It's your girl jenny bangs and i'm signing off 636 00:43:30,080 --> 00:43:32,980 I'm nicky sapphire. Thanks for stopping. Bye