Jan. 20, 2025
Goals and Resolutions for 2025
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So wrapping up, I think it's time to wrap up the whole 2024 talk.
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I know it's the first month of the year, so everyone's doing it.
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We're all talking about what we loved about the last year and what we're doing differently
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this year.
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So let's ask, what's your resolutions for this year that you're only going to hold
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on to for like a month or a couple of weeks and then you're going to forget that they exist.
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So I'm going to go ahead and say mine.
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I want to get more fit than I have been in my entire life.
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I want to be more fit than I ever have been in my entire life.
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And I want to...
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Like how fit?
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This sounds ridiculous, how's that?
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Like how fit do you want to get?
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I want to be so fit that like people ask me what my workout routine is.
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When I'm full...
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I mean, I love the thing, we're going to ask you that regardless.
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No, no, no, hold on.
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I want people to ask me what my routine is.
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I want people to ask me what my workout routine is when I'm fully clothed and wearing layers
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of winter gear.
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So they can't even see my body.
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They're just like, dang, you're so ripped, I can see you.
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And why would they ask?
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You're so fit, I can see it through your clothing.
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I don't know, I'm just being ridiculous.
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And then my other thing is just to make a proper schedule and kind of keep to it because
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I'm really bad at that.
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If you watch my Twitch streams, you know this.
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You're like, you know this.
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You know this very well.
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I know that.
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It's bad at keeping schedules.
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I know that.
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Yeah, that's pretty much my goals.
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I don't really like to keep like crazy goals just because like I always never accomplish
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them.
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So I kind of keep it a little smaller.
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What about y'all?
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Do you have any resolution?
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Resolution?
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No, no resolution.
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I can't disappoint anybody if I don't have.
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Okay, let's not call resolutions goals.
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Do you have goals?
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Goals, goals, goals.
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I just want to get more into like my photography.
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Yeah.
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Getting more like aside professional business situated with it.
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Perhaps.
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Makes sense.
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Good goal.
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I mean, honestly, that's really good goal.
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It was good to have.
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I feel like it's always good to...
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It's like we always make fun of New Year's resolutions and stuff.
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Maybe we should stop calling it a resolution.
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Just call it like, hey.
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New Year's goals.
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It's a new year.
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I have this goal for the year.
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And then you take that one big goal for the year and you break it into smaller like achievable
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goals.
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Like my goal, getting into the best shape I've ever been into.
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My small goal right now is to be able to run two miles.
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My smaller goal was to be able to walk five miles.
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I'm able to do that now.
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So I'm just increasing that small goal and then I'm increasing the miles I can do running.
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Eventually, I want to be able to run five miles completely.
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So it's just like, you got to stop thinking as a resolution.
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This is more towards like...
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Start thinking about them as goals.
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This is not more towards us, but towards people that are watching.
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And think of it as just a year goal, a yearly goal, and then what you can do to build up
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to that yearly goal.
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Right.
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Exactly.
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So what about you, Jay?
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What was your favorite part about Walton Goggins?
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I think it was really what was inside his...
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Oh, God.
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Anyways, no, that's not what we're talking about.
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We're talking about goals.
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Walton Goggins.
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Yeah.
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So, I mean, obviously this year, probably for everyone, just getting into shape again.
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I don't think I could say getting into the best shape I've ever been in because high
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school, I was pretty much like a full-time athlete.
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Yeah, I was going to say, you were probably at...
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You can get there.
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You can get there, but it would be really hard.
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It would be really hard.
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Yeah, that would be insane.
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But yeah, I want to get like in shape again.
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I like I've lost like four pounds this week.
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Wait, I have something for that.
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Oh.
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He lost four pounds.
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Oh, you could have just...
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Oh, he lost four pounds.
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That's how we lost the four pounds.
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Yeah, just actually going to the bathroom.
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I guess four more.
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Oh, I love it.
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I've tripled my water intake.
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I have like a walking treadmill at work so I can walk while I'm working.
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I have like a workout bike.
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We're doing like that.
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I want to get a metal challenge bike and stuff.
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So yeah.
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Are we still going to get a metal challenge bike?
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Yeah, we're going to...
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We're eventually getting our own bike as well.
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But yeah.
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We have like a little like family accountability group going on currently.
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So it's kind of like getting into shape.
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But then also, I really want like 2025 to be like the year that I actually start making
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like I guess BDSM like educational content.
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Like I've been talking about it for a few years.
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For a while now.
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And we've mentioned it a couple of times on the podcast.
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Well, maybe more than a couple of times.
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And we try to do a little series, remember with William Morrison about that.
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Yeah.
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Yes, I've been encouraging Jay to do this and hopefully he does have some plans for 2025.
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Yeah.
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Like, you know, have a lot of plans because I do go to like a lot of like BDSM classes,
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like Shamari classes, just a lot of Seattle like kink BDSM classes.
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I want to like pass that knowledge on.
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I think like mainly the struggle has been like...
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You're busy.
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I guess it's like...
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I'm busy.
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I'm super.
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I'm really busy.
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But then also it's like, who am I to like talk about these things, which I think like
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every content creator kind of goes through of like, why would people listen to somebody?
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Who am I to give an opinion?
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But if you're being educational and you're giving hard facts, like you're being less
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opinionated and trying to like be factual, then it's really like, who are you?
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You're just passing on the knowledge at that point.
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You're not really making something up.
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You're just passing on the knowledge that you've gained, which is really nice.
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And I...
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Because like there probably isn't a lot of people like yourself relaying knowledge in
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this field, you know?
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And I feel like maybe there needs to be more people like yourself that need to relay this
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knowledge, you know?
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It's like...
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Yeah.
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And I feel like most creators I see doing that kind of content is female, female or
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feminine presenting in some way or another.
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So...
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Yeah.
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I agree.
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Like I love...
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Like I'm a huge fan of like Evie Lupine.
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She's also here in Seattle.
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She's obviously...
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She's a female and she does like a lot of YouTube.
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I don't know, videos from like a female submissive side.
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If you haven't like checked her out, go check her out.
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But anyways, like there's not a whole lot out there, I guess, from like a male side.
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And...
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No, no, no.
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Yeah.
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I think like now is the year to do it, like especially looking with like politics currently.
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I think now more than ever, like if you're in some...
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Any sort of like community that's like threatened by, I don't know, the impeding doom, I guess,
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you should probably do something.
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I'm not saying, you know, make content, you know, necessarily, but...
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Educate yourself more.
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Educate yourself more.
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Help educate others.
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Like if you feel like your own life and personal safety is at risk as far as like just people
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not being educated, you can educate people or just...
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You need to start small.
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Start with people that care about what you say and stuff, you know.
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Don't know certain things, you know.
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You go to bondage school.
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Education is great.
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We did actually went to a Shabari class with Jay.
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But it's not bondage school.
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Jay and his partner...
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I mean, it is kind of bondage school, but it's not bondage school.
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It was really nice.
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It's not called bondage school.
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No, it's not called bondage.
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It's called...
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I want to go to bondage school.
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I don't want to go to bondage school.
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It's called rope school.
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I got your nuts.
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It sounds like 2025 is going to be a pretty decent year for the three of us.
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Hopefully.
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It was very naughty.
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Oh.
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BAM!
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So wrapping up, I think it's time to wrap up the whole 2024 talk.
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I know it's the first month of the year, so everyone's doing it.
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We're all talking about what we loved about the last year and what we're doing differently
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this year.
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So let's ask, what's your resolutions for this year that you're only going to hold
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on to for like a month or a couple of weeks and then you're going to forget that they exist.
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So I'm going to go ahead and say mine.
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I want to get more fit than I have been in my entire life.
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I want to be more fit than I ever have been in my entire life.
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And I want to...
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Like how fit?
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This sounds ridiculous, how's that?
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Like how fit do you want to get?
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I want to be so fit that like people ask me what my workout routine is.
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When I'm full...
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I mean, I love the thing, we're going to ask you that regardless.
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No, no, no, hold on.
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I want people to ask me what my routine is.
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I want people to ask me what my workout routine is when I'm fully clothed and wearing layers
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of winter gear.
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So they can't even see my body.
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They're just like, dang, you're so ripped, I can see you.
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And why would they ask?
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You're so fit, I can see it through your clothing.
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I don't know, I'm just being ridiculous.
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And then my other thing is just to make a proper schedule and kind of keep to it because
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I'm really bad at that.
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If you watch my Twitch streams, you know this.
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You're like, you know this.
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You know this very well.
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I know that.
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It's bad at keeping schedules.
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I know that.
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Yeah, that's pretty much my goals.
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I don't really like to keep like crazy goals just because like I always never accomplish
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them.
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So I kind of keep it a little smaller.
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What about y'all?
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Do you have any resolution?
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Resolution?
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No, no resolution.
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I can't disappoint anybody if I don't have.
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Okay, let's not call resolutions goals.
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Do you have goals?
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Goals, goals, goals.
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I just want to get more into like my photography.
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Yeah.
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Getting more like aside professional business situated with it.
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Perhaps.
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Makes sense.
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Good goal.
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I mean, honestly, that's really good goal.
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It was good to have.
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I feel like it's always good to...
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It's like we always make fun of New Year's resolutions and stuff.
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Maybe we should stop calling it a resolution.
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Just call it like, hey.
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New Year's goals.
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It's a new year.
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I have this goal for the year.
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And then you take that one big goal for the year and you break it into smaller like achievable
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goals.
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Like my goal, getting into the best shape I've ever been into.
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My small goal right now is to be able to run two miles.
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My smaller goal was to be able to walk five miles.
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I'm able to do that now.
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So I'm just increasing that small goal and then I'm increasing the miles I can do running.
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Eventually, I want to be able to run five miles completely.
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So it's just like, you got to stop thinking as a resolution.
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This is more towards like...
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Start thinking about them as goals.
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This is not more towards us, but towards people that are watching.
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And think of it as just a year goal, a yearly goal, and then what you can do to build up
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to that yearly goal.
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Exactly.
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So what about you, Jay?
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What was your favorite part about Walton Goggins?
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I think it was really what was inside his...
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Oh, God.
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Anyways, no, that's not what we're talking about.
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We're talking about goals.
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Walton Goggins.
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So, I mean, obviously this year, probably for everyone, just getting into shape again.
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I don't think I could say getting into the best shape I've ever been in because high
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school, I was pretty much like a full-time athlete.
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Yeah, I was going to say, you were probably at...
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You can get there.
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You can get there, but it would be really hard.
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It would be really hard.
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Yeah, that would be insane.
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But yeah, I want to get like in shape again.
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I like I've lost like four pounds this week.
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Wait, I have something for that.
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Oh.
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He lost four pounds.
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Oh, you could have just...
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Oh, he lost four pounds.
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That's how we lost the four pounds.
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Yeah, just actually going to the bathroom.
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I guess four more.
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Oh, I love it.
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I've tripled my water intake.
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I have like a walking treadmill at work so I can walk while I'm working.
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I have like a workout bike.
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We're doing like that.
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I want to get a metal challenge bike and stuff.
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So yeah.
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Are we still going to get a metal challenge bike?
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Yeah, we're going to...
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We're eventually getting our own bike as well.
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We have like a little like family accountability group going on currently.
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So it's kind of like getting into shape.
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But then also, I really want like 2025 to be like the year that I actually start making
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like I guess BDSM like educational content.
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Like I've been talking about it for a few years.
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For a while now.
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And we've mentioned it a couple of times on the podcast.
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Well, maybe more than a couple of times.
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And we try to do a little series, remember with William Morrison about that.
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Yes, I've been encouraging Jay to do this and hopefully he does have some plans for 2025.
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Like, you know, have a lot of plans because I do go to like a lot of like BDSM classes,
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like Shamari classes, just a lot of Seattle like kink BDSM classes.
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I want to like pass that knowledge on.
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I think like mainly the struggle has been like...
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You're busy.
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I guess it's like...
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I'm busy.
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I'm super.
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I'm really busy.
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But then also it's like, who am I to like talk about these things, which I think like
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every content creator kind of goes through of like, why would people listen to somebody?
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Who am I to give an opinion?
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But if you're being educational and you're giving hard facts, like you're being less
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opinionated and trying to like be factual, then it's really like, who are you?
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You're just passing on the knowledge at that point.
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You're not really making something up.
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You're just passing on the knowledge that you've gained, which is really nice.
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Because like there probably isn't a lot of people like yourself relaying knowledge in
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this field, you know?
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And I feel like maybe there needs to be more people like yourself that need to relay this
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knowledge, you know?
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It's like...
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Yeah.
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And I feel like most creators I see doing that kind of content is female, female or
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feminine presenting in some way or another.
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So...
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Yeah.
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I agree.
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Like I love...
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Like I'm a huge fan of like Evie Lupine.
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She's also here in Seattle.
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She's obviously...
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She's a female and she does like a lot of YouTube.
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I don't know, videos from like a female submissive side.
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If you haven't like checked her out, go check her out.
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But anyways, like there's not a whole lot out there, I guess, from like a male side.
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No, no, no.
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Yeah.
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I think like now is the year to do it, like especially looking with like politics currently.
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I think now more than ever, like if you're in some...
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Any sort of like community that's like threatened by, I don't know, the impeding doom, I guess,
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you should probably do something.
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I'm not saying, you know, make content, you know, necessarily, but...
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Educate yourself more.
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Educate yourself more.
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Help educate others.
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Like if you feel like your own life and personal safety is at risk as far as like just people
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not being educated, you can educate people or just...
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You need to start small.
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Start with people that care about what you say and stuff, you know.
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Don't know certain things, you know.
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You go to bondage school.
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Education is great.
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We did actually went to a Shabari class with Jay.
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But it's not bondage school.
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Jay and his partner...
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I mean, it is kind of bondage school, but it's not bondage school.
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It was really nice.
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It's not called bondage school.
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No, it's not called bondage.
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It's called...
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I want to go to bondage school.
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I don't want to go to bondage school.
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It's called rope school.
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I got your nuts.
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It sounds like 2025 is going to be a pretty decent year for the three of us.
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Hopefully.
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It was very naughty.
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Oh.
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BAM!
